07. What are the lovestyles according to Mars?
LOVE STYLES: “Your ACTIONS may ATTRACT one who WOULD ACT that way!”
Mars in FIRE SIGNS: Aries/Leo/Sagittarius: Engage in action
Suitors with Mars in FIRE Signs act these ways to ATTAIN love…
* active pursuer…prefer to be chooser and chaser; not be passive
* impulsive…fall in love too fast, too foolishly, too often
* passionate…very enthusiastic; very expressive about feelings
* forceful…can be assertive or aggressive in their pursuit.
People with Mars in the Fire signs Aries, Leo and Sagittarius are the go-getters of the zodiac. Fiery and passionate, they like spontaneity in bed and appreciate a partner who is very direct in expressing their sexuality.
Mars in ARIES acts…
* impetuous…is easily infatuated, then suddenly in hot pursuit
* direct and bold…makes intentions known; is never subtle or coy
* challenged…loves a new challenge; and the hard-to-get types
* competitive…loves the thrill of the chase, to win the prize
* ardent…pursues with a passion; is determined to catch you
* aggressive…may act macho or tough; might fight for you.
With Mars in Aries your instinct is warrior like and quick to take action. This is the fearless firefighter who rushes into a blazing building without thinking twice. Brave yes, but all too often this is a placement that will suffer burns in the romance department. If you have Mars in Aries you want what you want but don’t seem to consider any consequences. You have a very strong sex drive and it’s likely that you’ll want to get down to business immediately and often. Always first at the finish line, those with Mars in Aries will take pride in being the number one lover although you tend towards being selfish in bed and may rush. Mars in Aries craves excitement in love and sex.
Aries is the most assertive of the Mars signs. You like the thrill of the chase and get bored easily. You appreciate a partner who keeps you on your toes – in and out of the bedroom. You have an in-your-face sexual style, using clothing and body language to rev up your powers of attraction. However, you’re a bit selfish and need to take your partner’s feelings into account. When angry, you can blow up in a fiery rage, but you get over it quickly and completely.
Aries Mars has a strong libido. They enjoy the chase, but if their quarry gives in too easily, they can lose interest. They like to take risks in relationships, like choosing a place they could get caught for making love. They also enjoy games. They are exuberant and playful, which can make them a lot of fun, and they definitely have no trouble letting you know what their needs are. Mars in Aries may not be overly sensitive to their partner. They really aren’t into the sensuous; they prefer to get to the action. Long-term relationships may be a bit of a challenge.
Mars in Aries is openly aggressive, the Mars in Aries people are the most aggressive of the zodiac, these are the IN YOUR FACE people. This placement would be good for a military career. They are dynamos with incredible stamina and will work till they drop, their main problem is focus. They are really accident prone. They tend to bad tempers that flare easily or a “short fuse. You always know where you stand with these people and you wont have to ask, they will tell you. The women are usually masculine, these women do not wear make up, they don’t have time. The men like the fast cars, and fast women, and are prone to premature ejaculation.
Some like it HOT, HOT, HOT!!! The Roman god Mars and the Greek god Ares are associated with lust, passion, drive, with masculinity, courage, assertiveness, willpower, bloodthirsty behavior, and initiative, and anger. In astrology, Mars functions as the way in which you express your passion and drive, your feelings of sexual attraction, what and how you are sexually attracted to and how you pursue what you desire. Because Mars rules Aries, this is a powerful placement. Here is a person with a lot of drive, initiative, independence, high energy, courage and impulsiveness. However, this is not a strong indicator of stamina. Initial enthusiasm could ebb away if the object of desire resists for a very long time.
The challenge of winning what seems to be unattainable is a thrill for Mars in Aries, but a long standoff may make things seem less appealing. Starting new projects is a forte but finishing them is not. Therefore you should have people to whom things can be delegated so you can move onto the next big idea. You can lead a team but you are not a good team player/team member. If you are honest with yourself you will admit that you want things YOUR way and you will battle for what you want.
You ARE competitive in the bedroom and the boardroom. You are very likely to find it sexy to fight with your mate as part of lovemaking. This is the most courageous and enterprising Mars position. You have a HIGH and demanding sex drive and when you want sex you want it NOW. It does not take much to get you in the mood and your lover is expected to meet your needs from the start. Try to be patient!
You are motivated, driven, and hot tempered. You can be brutally honest and opinionated. You are as aggressive in the bedroom as any other area of life, and it makes no difference if you are with a one-night stand or a long-term lover, you are looking for satisfaction!
Mars in Aries: boldly pursues object of affection using a direct approach; actively demonstrates his prowess in anything, acts adventurous, and is more than willing to compete for affection; arguing and/or physical fighting is instant foreplay; initiates a lot of right-now, anywhere-goes quickie sex
Aries: This is the Mars that probably initiated the Mile High Club. Daring, adventurous and thriving on risk-taking, they approach the lusty arts with gusto and a touch of competition. Their direct and forceful nature can be tempered for more gentle times, but they do appreciate those moments when it’s all about clothes flying, nail scratching, and loud, juicy sex.
Mars in LEO acts…
* dramatic…courts you with a flamboyant flair; may “show off”
* romantic…sends flowers, reads poetry, stages sweet surprises
* regal…courts like a King or Queen, with an aristocratic air
* giving…gives gifts and treats; maybe more than s/he can afford
* warm…acts affectionate and friendly; makes you feel worthy
* proud…acts proud to be with you; may try to “show you off”.
With Mars in Leo you have a deep desire to be as flamboyant in your expression of love and desire as possible. No other sign can compete with your romantic energy since Leo rules love, sex and romance! Mars in Leo does tend toward the assertive pursuit of its own creative self expression and you have a strong desire for being recognized and respected in all you do. You act with nobility and pride in all aspects of life but this is especially apparent in your sexual pursuits. Mars in Leo wants to be a lover who is remembered for being warm hearted and capable of keeping the fun in love for a long time to come. And as long as you get the attention you need, you’ll do just that!
Mars in Leo leads with the heart. When you’re in love, passion takes over your body, mind and soul. You need a partner who isn’t afraid to show you how they feel. After all, Leo needs to feel appreciated. But in return, you give of yourself wholeheartedly with warmth and generosity especially in bed. When angry, you either roar like the lion or go off into a corner to lick your wounds. Sincere expressions of love and contrition from your partner will make you come around again.
In relationships, they are affectionate and demonstrative. They love the excitement of a new love affair. They like to be the center of attention in the bedroom as much as they like it in the other areas of their life. Mars in Leo is very dramatic, and they enjoy opulent surroundings. They are passionate and charming. They don’t like competition in the bedroom or with past lovers. They are faithful, and expect to be treated the same way. While they do pay attention to their partner, their primary concern is their own enjoyment. They may be possessive or jealous, but they may try to hide this. Leo Mars is not above testing their partner. They may try to pull the wool over your eyes from time to time. They may come across too strong at times or get impatient, but they are open and direct.
Mars in Leo … you will hear these people before you see them, they are super friendly, super outgoing but do possess fire here. They can be impulsive, hot blooded, have a crazy sex drive however, they become to obsessed with they way they look having sex. Looks are very important they have huge egos that need feeding and must be the king or queen of the castle. These people like mirrors on the ceiling, they would rather watch themselves masturbate than actually have sex. The like drama, porn and sexual visuals. They are dominant and natural leaders and would be good at a military career. This is especially good for women in the military it is the only place that can handle that kind of energy from women.
Leo likes living AND loving LARGE!! If you have Mars in Leo, there is a strong natural pull to fine dining, flamboyant displays of affection, dramatic gestures and a love of being the center of attention, whether giving or receiving such a spotlight. Mars in Leo is no stranger to lust and the person with this placement wants to look good and get pats on the back while displaying love in all its grandest forms. Mars in Leo likes to be both generous and appreciated for the generosity. It will result in even more pleasure being given and received.
Don’t muss the hair of a Leo woman while making love – unless you make her hair look like a sexy tousled lion’s mane, LOL. Leo is a playful sign and enjoys the upbeat, optimistic side of love. Sometimes a bit of passionate anger can be mixed in there, but in general Mars in Leo wants aggressive passion and a heavy touch. Get in there and do the deed! The roars and purrs of pleasure coming from the bedroom may scare others but you’ll have a good time.
Silk sheets in leopard or tiger prints will be very appealing. A glamorous, elaborate bedroom is a perfect Mars in Leo setting!
Try to remember to be patient with your partner and other people in general, even thought you want to plow ahead with great force and confidence!
You are very clear about your likes and dislikes, and need to be appreciated as a person and a lover. Anything but ordinary, you know how to get attention in all areas of life. You are a warm and expressive lover who likes a bit of opulence. When it comes to making love, you have no trouble being the aggressor.
Mars in Leo: enthusiastically pursues object of affection using a confident, showy approach; acts like he’s the best at whatever, whenever, wherever ALL THE TIME, his gallantly dramatic displays of affection, his flattery, his style of presentation, his…well, just being with HIM in all of his glory is the foreplay, this Mars placement is the rock & roll icon and his lover better act like his groupie or else; initiates look-at-me, I’m-on-stage sex
Leo: Leo thrives on plenty of appreciation and praise. Role playing, grand and luxurious gestures in your lovemaking, and a touch of drama will make this big cat purr. If you can safely arrange to have sex in front of an appreciative audience (be careful with home videos), you may see some remarkable performances from Mars in Leo. At the very least, their warm heart and generous spirit will make for an affectionate and loving time.
Mars in SAGITTARIUS acts…
* to-the-point…doesn’t want to waste time on games or rituals
* blunt…shares opinions, whether you want to hear them or not
* adventurous…seeks to explore many new experiences with you
* freedom-loving…wants to avoid restrictions; gives you space
* philosophical or humourous…plays philosopher or clown; laughs
* companionable…wants to pal around with you; be friends first.
With Mars in Sagittarius your energy for adventure is strong. You love to assert your intellect and beliefs on others and may be guilty of coming on a bit too strong in this area. With Mars in Sagittarius you’re known for an aggressive hold on your opinions and this isn’t a placement that easily admits being wrong. In sexual matters your energy is bold and adventurous but your spirit must always remain free so this Mars position won’t tolerate a clingy lover. Mars in Sagittarius needs to have fun and experience sex in a very direct way. Although you love games and sports, when it comes to sex you rarely want mind games – only the physical ones!
Sagittarius is the most adventurous and fun-loving of the Mars signs. You like sex in varied locales, positions – and sometimes people. Yes, you’re a bit fickle and may have difficulty settling down. That is, until you find someone you can have fun with, who makes you laugh and has a spiritual connection with you. When angry, you react quickly and often speak before you think. However, your positive attitude usually resumes quickly after the storm.
Mars in Sagittarius is fun, but unfaithful. They are restless and want variety. They like the chase, but once the conquest is made, they lose interest. They also don’t want to feel restrained by commitment. Sagittarius Mars will hang around for someone who can amuse them both intellectually and sexually. Until they find someone like that, they are likely to keep hopping from one bed to another. They are curious, and enjoy hearing about or watching the exploits of others. They may be a bit crude… they think it is fun. They also enjoy having their liaisons in unusual places. Like most things in their life, their love life is mere sport. Playing hard to get is a good way to lose their interest. Games are fine, as long as they aren’t too cerebral.
Mars in Sagittarius loves to travel they make great pilots. They are outgoing, friendly, independent, enthusiastic and Lucky. Mars in Sagittarius is hot headed, but cools easily, not much of a temper like the other fire signs. They are athletic and love the outdoors, hiking, aerobics and are good runners. Sex is fun for them, these are the swingers, they are the BI men and women. The Sagittarius likes sexual visuals and porn and many partners, sometimes all at once. They just think sex is fun, an adventure.
The phrase “anger management” comes to mind when Mars in Sagittarius surfaces. Between the spontaneous and combustible nature of the Centaur and the warrior stance of Mars, you could have a rather kinky and wild sexual ride with a Mars in Sagittarius person.
These people like their freedom, have little patience for getting into serious details and like to experiment with the outer edges of the sexual envelope. People with Mars in Sagittarius generally start things but do not finish them – and that can include relationships. They have an idealistic stance, and great vision, but they sabotage their dreams by putting their verbal foot in their mouth or taking actions that intimidate others. Many times they simply trash things and people and move onto the next “project. Of course environment plays a role here.
These folks love the outdoors, including sports that involve bloodletting – hunting for example. They enjoy being in the forest, like the mythical Pan. They have a blunt, direct, yet passionate approach in bed. Remember when Great Britain’s Prince Charles, while married to Princess Diana, was audio-taped while telling his married mistress Camilla Parker Bowles that he wished to be reincarnated as a tampon so that he might always be in her knickers? Prince Charles has natal Mars in Sagittarius. Want to try a new position? They are up for it – literally. They like playing games in bed, including roughhousing. The only things is, don’t think you are getting out of that bed without them getting their ultimate satisfaction! In or out of bed, if they feel you are infringing on their freedom, they will cut you down and turn you off in a split second. They may even run away, but they will always return, as Sagittarian energy is mutable.
In all areas, you tend to go straight to the heart of the matter. You like things simple. You tend to view emotional commitments as restrictive, and are prone to carrying on several relationships at once to satiate your sexual needs. You require variety in every sense of the word.
Mars in Sagittarius: optimistically pursues object of affection using a direct approach; acts like a daredevil, plays practical jokes, or extends and wins challenges to an athletic competition to impress someone; laughter and getting naked is foreplay; initiates spontaneous, outdoorsy, on-vacation sex
Sagittarius: Laughter may be the best medicine, but in the case of Mars in Sagittarius, it’s also the best aphrodisiac. While other Mars’ might take offense if you start giggling while kissing, this one will join in with gusto and renewed enthusiasm. Bold, adventurous and ready to go, this Mars has a hearty, healthy appetite when it comes to sex and the arts of love.
Mars in EARTH SIGNS: Taurus/Virgo/Capricorn: Engage the body
Suitors with Mars in EARTH Signs act these ways to ATTAIN love…
* practical…take useful steps to pursue you; are very pragmatic
* planning…make concrete plans; know your likes/dislikes/habits
* patient…will wait a long time, if that seems the best tactic
* persistent…chug along in their courtship till the ship sinks.
People with Mars in the Earth signs Taurus, Virgo and Capricorn are physically oriented and super sensual – they love touching and being touched. Sex is best when accompanied by scrumptious food and plenty of foreplay.
Mars in TAURUS acts…
* a good provider…of both material things and sensual comforts
* determined…wants you a lot and for a long time; will patiently persist
* very physical…will hug and caress; concerned for your comforts
* hedonistic…loves all sensual pleasures; likely over-indulges
* Nature-loving…seeks to get near Nature, to relax and revitalize
* possessive…may want to own you, or to remove you from rivals.
With Mars in Taurus you have a steady, enduring stream of energy that doesn’t rush but always finishes what is started. In love and sex you’re capable of keeping the fire lit all night long. You don’t need anything fancy to get you in the mood since you’re the most sensuous of all the signs. In fact, physical pleasure is essential to your well being and Mars in Taurus will aggressively pursue achieving this gratification. Mars in this sign endows you with great perseverance and determination. In your sexual relationships you desire someone who isn’t inhibited with the earthy, lustful act of two bodies engaged in pure animal delight.
Taurus is the most sensual of the Mars signs. Hugs, massages, foot rubs and even walks in nature heat up your natural instincts. If food is served before a frolic between the sheets, all the better. You’re a practical soul, so you’re attracted to people who are emotionally and financially stable. You need consistency in relationships and are loyal to the one you love. When angered, you do slow burn, but watch out if pushed too far – this bull can stampede!
In a relationship, Mars in Taurus is rather conventional and straightforward. They are emotionally stable and loyal to the end. They are into gratification, both their own and their partner’s. They like their creature comforts, and bring that into their relationships. Physical relations are very important to Taurus Mars. They don’t complicate things with fantasy, they just take their time. Foreplay was invented by Mars in Taurus. They can be very jealous if they imagine someone else is interested in their partner. They have a very difficult time if denied sex for any length of time… they see it as necessary as breathing or eating, which they also enjoy to the utmost. They need a partner who is willing to relax and enjoy.
Mars in Taurus is indeed one of the most stubborn placements of any planet in any sign, once they make up their minds, there is no changing it. They take it to an immature level and are stubborn as hell. Taurus is very fixed, they work hard and have high stamina but this is the bull is in the china shop position. They want to possess so it is in the possessiveness that they want to control. It is nice in that they have a good concept of the male/female relationships. These people are not really aggressive as much as they are stubborn they will fight but to defend an opinion. They tend to only see their own opinions and discard others, it is very hard to change their minds about an opinion. They are not good at debating, but good at hard work, their lives do not have much gray area, they see things in black and white.
Except for when a red cape is being waved at it and it is being prodded and dared, a bull does not run. He takes his time, slowly and steadily getting to where he wants. He is so big that very few dare to get in his way or oppose him. He arrives at his destination and rest himself, enjoying some delicious food, or a good nap or some satisfying sex. That is Taurus the Bull. Taurus is ruled by Venus, the planet of love. Thus there is emotion, balanced by Taurean practicality and logic.
Unlike Mars in Aries, Mars in this sign is not about pushing aggressively wrestling you to the floor. Mars in Taurus is about the slow burn of love. Mars in Taurus wants to take a tour of the preparations of lovemaking – all the little luxuries that can be enjoyed as part of the process. Silky sheets, delicious wine, sumptuous food, heart-warming music, those things are all part of the lovemaking. After all these preliminaries, then you get right down to it and endurance is the key. With Mars in Taurus you are a steady and dependable lover.
Mars in Taurus also indicates that the things you value are the things you pursue with a quiet passion. You like the material and physical world – comfortable surroundings, a nice home, good food, expensive clothing, investing in the stock market, making money in general, saving money and increasing your portfolio. You choose a course of action and pursue it without wavering. People can be quite surprised at your determination. Patience is a strong suit.
You may not appear to be a sex bomb, but sexual satisfaction is high on your list of priorities. You are very sensual and sexual partner who approaches sex in a straightforward manner. Staging fights, playing games, acting out fantasies, rushing and fetishes are not your style. However you may want to try to be a little creative at times and vary your approach because sex at precisely 8 o’clock every Tuesday night after dinner is apt to get boring for your partner!
Mars in Taurus: slowly pursues the object of affection using a persistent approach; acts like the typical strong, silent type; talks about his goals/plans or shows off his nice possessions when he’s attracted to someone, and may even present his credit report as proof of his financial stability and ability while asking for a date or during a marriage proposal (yes, I’m exaggerating here); gives massages, long embraces, and slow kisses as foreplay; initiates steady, lasts-all-night sex
You may be driven by your material ambition, but that need for security enhances your bedroom activity. Your sexuality is strong and you know how to express it very sensually, and aren’t afraid to take control.
Taurus: The earthy, straightforward Taurus appreciates a certain predictability in their lovemaking. Music, massage oils and food help to provide a familiar structure without falling into a rut. Some Mars in Taurus’ would almost prefer a massage to intercourse. This sign/planet combination loves sex somewhere in nature, though they prefer a private and secluded spot where you won’t be seen.
Mars in VIRGO acts…
* attentive to details…notes your preferences and caters to you
* perfectionist…wants to make everything perfect, including you
* adaptable…willing to compromise or adapt to make things work
* indispensable…becomes so helpful or useful, you depend on them
* analytical…always analyzing the relationship to improve it
* critical…sees flaws in you or the relationship, and tells you!
With Mars in Virgo your energy is refined and discriminating. In everything you seek to do there is an exacting standard you must attain, always, in order for your drive to be fulfilled. In matters of sex and love you can be quite a productive romantic partner – both in and out of the bedroom! Mars in Virgo is the essence of serving energy so pleasing your lover and satisfying every sexual need is a turn on for you. You see sex in a healthy, necessary way to release energy tension and even though you are attracted to someone who has a healthy respect for their body, you’re not looking for the perfect person. Your energy is more the type to love someone that can become more perfect through your energy.
Mars in Virgo is sensual but discriminating. You’re turned on by someone who is controlled and has their act together – and who lives up to your high standards. You can appear reserved, but when aroused, your wanton side takes over. Virgo is the healer, so your partner undoubtedly appreciates your healing touch – your massages will put anyone under your spell. When angry, your analytical side emerges. But at some point, a cathartic tirade to blow off steam becomes a necessity.
While they have a healthy attitude towards sex, they can be a bit insecure. They generally like people who mostly go through life unnoticed. Virgo Mars will do lots of little things for their partner to make them feel appreciated and loved. They are respectful and attentive. Devoted, they will do all they can to please. They are very curious, though they may not do anything about it unless they are with the right partner. They are not as picky or selective as they are often portrayed. They may even prefer a partner who has imperfections so they can care and nurture them. All in all, Mars in Virgo can be a great partner for anyone who doesn’t need high drama or emotional release in their relationship.
Mars in Virgo is a weak Mars, not much temper here and does not stand up for themselves. This is a tough placement for Mars they don’t like aggression at all, they are noncombative and unassuming but responsible with all the details in life. Mars in Virgo is compulsive and obsessive and often too critical and picky for a relationship and see sex as too messy.
Love is an emotion and sex is not something that runs on the fuel of rationality, but Mars in Virgo will certainly try to shape some rules and regulations to make it work and work right!
Virgo is a sign known for the characteristics of being methodical, rigid, concerned with minutiae, good with organization and aiming for perfection. With this placement a person is very conscientious, but perhaps lacking in imagination and lightheartedness – something crucial to a good sexual relationship. While insisting that sex can only be done after the dishes and in a certain position is not sexy, it is sexy that you desire to get it right when it comes to pleasuring your partner.
Mars, the symbol of passion, is not very passionate in Virgo. Your sex drive may be strong, but your willingness to express it can be repressed. They may be critical of their partner, trying to contain their partner’s sexual expression. If you have Mars in Virgo you may also attract a perfectionist, critical partner. Sometimes this leaks out in a bit of kinky behavior. Virgo men are famous for being rigid, puritanical and nitpicky when it comes to sexual display, but behind the scenes they can be, as one client described to me, “superfreaks”. They may also have quite a fascination with buttocks.
It is in your nature to save, to salvage, to help and be useful. You are careful and a perfectionist, but can also be critical and petty. Always analytical, you tend to glamorize sex in your mind. Even though your passions are strong and you crave intimate rapture, your approach in the bedroom comes off as reserved or even cool.
Mars in Virgo: methodically pursues object of affection using a logical, organized approach; demonstrates ability to efficiently execute plans and complete tasks correctly to impress; spends a lot of time translating ideas into reality by making sure every seduction detail is just right; initiates technically proficient, nervous-tension-relieving sex
Virgo: It’s all about the details with Mars in Virgo. This Mars appreciates focused and discriminating attention during lovemaking, initiating small careful touches with a connoisseur’s approach to the body, They love pleasing you, demonstrating a skillful understanding of what is most exciting and effective. Mars in Virgo also appreciates some kind of a plan for sex. This could be as kinky as role-playing or as simple as a reservation at a nice bed and breakfast, but if a calendar is involved, you’ll rev the Mars in Virgo engine.
Mars in CAPRICORN acts…
* cool & careful…won’t reveal romantic interest until you do!
* aloof…can’t seem to show warmth or emotion openly or overtly
* shrewd and savvy…coolly sizes up chances and makes careful plans
* responsible…wins you by being reliable and solid and supportive
* organized…schedules the courtship, and orchestrates the moves
* material…convinces you of the practical or material benefits.
With Mars in Capricorn you have a strong, earthy and ambitious energy. Although you possess a lusty sexuality with this Mars placement, you appear to be very subdued and controlled so one wouldn’t know this unless they were intimate with you. Mars in Capricorn prefers endurance in sex rather than the quick sprint to the finish line. You also have the ability to control your sex drive like no other sign can. Mars in Capricorn is capable of denying pleasure altogether and focusing their ambitious energy on career matters instead. When you are in a sexual relationship, you prefer to be with a partner who is experienced or even older. What’s tried and true works for you in matters of sex.
Mars in Capricorn is a patient, thorough lover. You take your time with your partner, and can prolong a bedroom tryst until the wee hours of the morning. You’re attracted to people who are sexy but down to earth. No pretentiousness for you! You delight in all forms of physical enjoyment; even hard but satisfying physical labor can be a turn on for you. When angry, you need time to process your feelings, so the blow-up often comes long after the confrontation.
Mars in Capricorn has a strong libido and appreciates sensual experiences. This is hidden behind their conservative face. It is hard to let this side show. Once they reveal the real person inside, you won’t be disappointed. They don’t rush, but take their time, enjoying the moment. Conventional and straightforward, they give quite a bit to their partner, although they expect quite a bit in return. They are not into experimenting with new techniques. They appreciate discretion. They want the security of a long-term relationship. If they are focused on their career, they have the capability of suppressing their sexual urges completely if needed so they are not distracted. They have a lot of endurance.
The Capricorn energy settles the mars energy and makes mars very stable here. They are even tempered, matched with practical knowledge it is a great placement for mars and aggression. They think about revenge a lot even if they don’t go through with it, and their practical side says … it ain’t worth all that . They can work and work and work, it is therapeutic for them to work and work hard, it helps them to focus. They are not as clinical as Virgo when it comes to sex but it is not a strong need, they have to feel very comfortable to really enjoy sex. Sex is secondary, self discipline is first. They like long term relationships and mature mates. What you see is what you get here, no games.
Private and powerful. This is Mars in Capricorn in general and when it comes to personal and sexual relationships. Here is where you see a person with a determined, yet subdued drive that slowly, steadily makes its way to its destination.
Those with Mars in Capricorn do not give away the details of their sex lives, but rest assured their partner is never lacking. With a quiet confidence Capricorn always finishes what it starts – or what you start. So if you are not sure you want to make love tonight, do not begin the foreplay. The Mars in Capricorn person does not like sexual head games.
Someone who has Mars in Capricorn in the 2nd house of earned income, self-esteem and values typically achieves high financial goals although you may never know the extent of the wealth they have attained. They powerfully attain what they desire and they rarely feel the need to boast about their conquests.
Mars is the sign of the Warrior and Capricorn is cardinal (leader) energy so Mars in Capricorn natives are ambitious and prefer being on top of things – heh heh, literally. They are masters at self-restraint – and it shows in their sexuality, drive, career and expression of anger. As an Earth sign like Taurus and Virgo, Capricorn likes the pleasures of the flesh. Once the light is green they want to revel and roll in it, squeeze it tightly, immerse themselves deeply in it, and shake the earth with its orgasmic succulence. Like Chaka Khan sang, once you get started…oh its hard to stop…you just can’t stop.
And, lest, you think this is purely selfish, it is not. Mars in Capricorn people get immense pleasure from seeing their partner reach orgasm. A goal achieved is always rewarding when there is Capricorn energy involved. Mars in Capricorn people truly care about their partners (the energy of polar sign Cancer coming through!). They feel obligated to make sure both they and their partner have a good, satisfying time.
You are driven to be accomplished, and prefer positions of power and control – professionally and personally. Because you tend to apply your energy in the direction that is most self-serving, you can be romantic and sexy one moment, cool and disinterested the next. You have a great capacity for passion, but can be a selfish lover.
Mars in Capricorn: gradually pursues object of affection using a goal-oriented approach; acts very self-assured, proper, and guarded when trying to impress someone; a seduction game plan, dominant/submissive role-playing, and spanking is foreplay; initiates straight-to-the-nitty-gritty sex
Capricorn: Capricorn Mars is patient and persistent, with an ability to make love for long periods of time without need for rest. Like the other earth signs, providing a natural backdrop for passionate interludes is a welcome gesture. Their desire may build slowly, so don’t expect a lot of action right away, but once activated it endures for substantial periods.
Mars in AIR SIGNS: Gemini/Libra/Aquarius: Engage the mind
Suitors with Mars in AIR Signs act these ways to ATTAIN love…
* woo with words…calls, poems, letters, declarations, want ads
* persuasive…pursue by persuading you with eloquence and reason
* interactive…get you involved in banter, discussion, and debate
* rational…act logical and unemotional, but often rationalize.
People with Mars in the Air signs Gemini, Libra and Aquarius are the masters of flirtation and are attracted to brainiacs. Words and foreplay go together, so they appreciate a partner who is vocally expressive in bed and will tell them what they need sexually.
Mars in GEMINI acts like the…
* sweet-talker…has a way with words; can twist words to win you
* wit…is a clever conversationalist; loves banter and innuendo
* writer…writes notes, poems or long letters; even sends faxes
* reader…loves to share books or articles, then discuss them
* talker…loves long intimate conversations and true confessions
* phone-mate…loves long romantic calls; may enjoy Internet romances or “phone sex”.
With Mars in Gemini you have a great energy for communication. This power in your words is most assertively used in matters of love and sexual gratification. You have very little problem verbalizing your needs in sex or telling a partner that you want to try something new. Mars in Gemini does become bored quite easily and since this is the planet of action in restless sign romantic pursuits should always have a fresh trick up their sleeve if your desire is expected to last long. Mars in Gemini has a strong intellectual drive so mental pleasure can sometimes be more important than sex. In love, some good pillow talk will be the biggest turn on for this sign.
Gemini is the wittiest of the Mars signs. Playful repartee turns you on, especially if your partner can match you intellectually. Be it lusty or loving, love letters are your forte. Holding conversations in bed is also a turn-on, so you need a partner who is talkative between the sheets. When angry, you are most comfortable turning off your feelings and debating solely on logic. This is fine in the business arena but can be disconcerting to those closest to you.
Mars in Gemini is imaginative and creative. They are never boring in a relationship. They consider their mind an erogenous zone, and one of the best ways to attract them is to mentally stimulate them. They like to try new things and be experimental. They may not always be faithful… it is too tempting to try something new. One night stands come easy to Gemini Mars. Sex is not full of meaning to them; it is just another fun activity. They are enthusiastic and curious about everything, so they’ll try anything once, no matter how bizarre. Romantic relationships may be superficial, and they love to flirt. Because they get bored so easily, if one wants to keep Gemini Mars interested, you must be willing to be inventive and exciting. They get just as much pleasure out of mental stimulation as physical contact. Erotic literature and pillow talk is sure to get them interested. They may be a bit high strung and require a lot of attention.
Mars in Gemini is nervous energy, scattered energy. This placement likes to argue for arguments sake and often take on the role of playing devils advocate. The inventor of phone sex likely had this placement, combine the sexual energy of mars, and the talky energy of gem and you have phone sex. Mars in gem are the phone sex operators of the world, telemarketers, they are spunky people who have a lot of energy and talk all the time. They are not particularly picky about sexual partners. Sex is not a means to a connection to them it is simply sex, communications is the way to a connection with a Gemini Mars. They get bored easily flitting like the Gemini energy from one thing to another and from one person to another.
Do you want a lover with good hands? Wants spice and variety in your lovemaking? Do you enjoy experimentation? If so, you want someone with Mars in Gemini.
Gemini is ruled by Mercury, the Messenger god who flies from one place to another, thinks quickly, and moves at lightning speed. Gemini people use their hands a lot and in a love relationship it comes in, er, handy. Strong Gemini energy can make one VERY adept with hands and fingers – playing guitar, playing piano, golfing, and making intricate repairs. If you have Mars in Gemini you know how to caress your lover and in general touching, caressing, patting and holding if very important, but not only that – you like to be talked to in romance and sex. Talking is your foreplay style. Mentally your mind must be stimulated for your body to join in the festivities.
Mars in Gemini is not cut out for endurance sex because most of the energy is spent mentally, so try some tai-chi, mediation or yoga to calm the mind so the body can enjoy!
You are attracted to intelligent people who can captivate your mind. Talking about fantasies, acting them out, introducing surprises and reading erotica can bring you great pleasure with a lover. Mars produces mental assertiveness and mental energies are highest here. If you are not being mentally stimulated with word and variety you lose interest and may seem erratic because you start focusing on other things.
Professionally your passions, with Mars in Gemini, can lead you into being a reporter, journalist, teacher, public relations spokesperson or critic. You could find yourself changing job frequently. You like to be thought of as intelligent. Just be careful about becoming superficial – knowing a little about a lot of things. This also applies to your sexual relationships – when younger you may find yourself flitting from one “special” person to another as you lose interest quickly. Playing too many sexual games (fetishes, role-playing etc) may frighten off a partner (“you’re weird”) so you may need to ask yourself why you are having trouble being satisfied with a generally straight-forward sex life. Take pride in your flirting abilities to a degree but beware of using people sexually as it could cause you to get a bad reputation as a player or flake and you will find yourself alone. Having no one to talk to is a nightmare for a Gemini! Get to really KNOW your partner by asking in-depth questions and talking about yourself on an equally deep level. You will find yourself quite turned on mentally and physically!
Your communication skills are dynamic, and you’ve got more energy than you know what to do with. Boardroom or bedroom, you’ve got many irons in the fire. You are prone to a great number of affairs or marriages – sometime simultaneously. Ever the intellectual, you play the fantasy out in your mind and follow the script. Foreplay is your forte.
Mars in Gemini: sporadically pursues object of affection using a now-you-see-me-now-you-don’t approach; attracts attention by making clever observations and extending invitations to fun and/or interesting events; provides playful, sarcastic teasing, writing/reading erotic letters, and sexually suggestive phone conversations as foreplay; initiates quick, multiple-session sex
Gemini: A Mars in Gemini person probably invented phone sex. You can run with this inspiring thought by developing new ways to play with language that turns you both on. When this Mars gets angry, be prepared for a verbal display of unprecedented wit. They may not be loud, but they will be amusing and lethal at the same time. Imagine an irritated Shakespeare crossed with Bob Dylan (ala “spend just one moment inside my shoes”) as the ultimate expression of Mars energy shining through Gemini.
Mars in LIBRA acts…
* pleasing…acts gracious, charming, considerate, accomodating
* the partner…wants to do everything as your partner, not alone
* the listener…loves to hear you talk of events/feelings/ideas
* romantic…woos in tender, sweet, sensitive ways; sends flowers
* intimate…prefers to be alone with you, and concentrate on you
* understanding…makes you feel only s/he really understands you.
With Mars in Libra your energy in matters of achievement is more tempered than other signs. You’re a lover, not a fighter. Since you are overly concerned with the other person and their needs with Mars in Libra, you can make an excellent, accommodating lover indeed. You must be assured that your partner is thrilled before you can enjoy yourself. At the same time however, you could suffer with some underlying anger and aggression if your own physical needs are being ignored. Although you won’t come right out and say this, you expect your partner to know what to do to satisfy you since you go so out of the way to ensure their pleasure. Mars in Libra is concerned with energy balance and equality.
Libra is the naughty-but-nice Mars sign. You’re a mix of graciousness and sexiness. You’re turned on by beauty and appreciate a partner who has a keen sense of style. In bed, you’re just as concerned with your partner’s pleasure as your own. After all, Libra is the sign of fairness. However, you may have trouble expressing anger and turn to passive aggressive behavior instead. On the plus side, you see both sides to every confrontation and strive to fight fair.
Mars in Libra needs motivation. They do best when paired with someone they adore. They are affectionate and romantic, but they have a rather low sex drive. While they can unlock the passions in others, they are fairly conservative themselves. Role-playing may intrigue them. They dislike rudeness and vulgarity, and will stay far away from potential partners that display such behavior. They are very subtle in their approach to sex. Romance is very important, as is lots of sensual contact. The environment is very important to set the mood. They can be very skilled at pleasing their partner. Mars in Libra has a reputation for being unfaithful, but it stems from a difficulty saying no rather than a straying eye. They tend to expect their partner to read their minds about what they like. If they have an unspoken need not being met, they will hold their anger in and let it seethe while they wonder why their partner doesn’t have a clue about what they want. They prefer to be showered with praise and affection and love being the center of attention.
Mars in Libra are feminine people, male or female. Sex is beautiful to them but the person has to be pleasing to the eye as well. This is another feminine position for men, they often become hair dressers and interior designers. They are gentle people with a gentle touch, soft skin and are easy going, there is not much temper here. This is another Libra placement where if the scales are tipped, it is hard to get grounded again. They have a strong need for justice and like to debate. These are the people who think there is a clause on their birth certificates that says their life will be fair. If they feel that they can not get justice they can have a disregard for the law or authority and/or the establishment, they can be good crooks. Mars in Libra feels a strong need for a partner they function the best in a partnership and they feel more balanced with a partner. They need verbal reassurance.
If you have a legal case to fight be sure to get an attorney with Mars in Libra. Combining the power and bloodthirsty aggression of Mars with Libra’s ability to reason and desire to have fairness, you will most likely win.
Mars in Libra is passive-aggressive personified. Mars wants to take action and get things done, but Libra will mellow out the impulsive nature of Mars. Where mars in Aries jumps into the fray, Mars in Libra thinks about how the end goal can be achieved without having to get one’s hands dirty. In fact Mars in Libra is adept at getting others to do the dirty work, deal with the confrontations and handle the unpleasant task while procrastinating about making a decision. The Mars in Libra person can even look quite surprised if you challenge them regarding their role in a situation. “Who, me?” they will say, not wanting to seem aggressive, cutthroat, or unfair. With the most pleasant of words they seek compromise when they know they cannot win.
Sexually, Mars in Libra people are aggressive about pleasing their partners and being pleased in return (everything must be reciprocal in the world of Libra). They can be rather picky and fastidious, but they will literally charm the pants of you and make it worth your while!
You have a desire to be all things to all people, and will bend to another’s will rather than argue. Your sex drive is impulsive and sensuous, but you put more of your energy into the emotional bonds rather than the physical. You prefer sophisticated lovers who are not afraid to instigate intimacy.
Mars in Libra: indirectly pursues object of affection using a classy approach; attracts love by being gracious, intellectually stimulating, and presenting ideas as win-win situations; foreplay is poetry, dinner, dancing, conversation, kissing, tickling, and soft love-bites; initiates romantic, sugar-and-spice “lovemaking” (Someone with Venus in Libra probably coined this term.)
Libra: Mars in Libra is more Tantra than leather, enjoying sex as a part of the romance, a yummy main course in the feast of relationship. Creating beauty, harmony and an environment of serenity as a backdrop for lovemaking (not sex, but lovemaking) will please and soothe this Mars. You may never know they are angry until they’ve left you, so paying extra attention to subtle clues is important.
Mars in AQUARIUS acts…
* original…unique, delightfully different, inventive; shocking
* unconventional…does things in unorthodox ways; experiments
* the individual…sets own style; encourages you to “be yourself”
* nonconforming…rebels against the system, standards, or rules
* free-spirited…seeks an unrestricted, free, open lifestyle
* coolly detached…appears aloof, intellectual, or unemotional.
With Mars in Aquarius you have unusual ideas and attitudes when it comes to sex and your energy will be rather eccentric as you pursue your desires. In fact, what turns you on is likely to confuse the average person. For you, anything worth pursuing must contain a mental connection first. If you don’t feel mental arousal, it’s impossible to have physical stimulation. The problem is, what turns you on with Mars in Aquarius could be different every day. Phone or cyber sex is particularly appealing to you as are all forms of nontraditional and experimental sexcapades. In general, Mars in Aquarius has the most progressive energy to direct itself where other people would never consider going.
Mars in Aquarius is the rule-breaker. You’re turned on by people who defy convention and are unique, even brilliant. In bed, you like to experiment with different techniques, positions and even gadgets. You need a partner who shares your curiosity about sexuality. When angered, you tend to detach from your feelings and aren’t adverse to shocking the people who pissed you off. Fortunately, you’re a humanist at heart and endeavor to understanding where they’re coming from.
Mars in Aquarius is into anything new and unusual in their sex lives, too. What is exciting one day is totally boring the next. They like to experiment and have a creative imagination. They will try anything at least once… in fantasy if not in real life. Stimulating their mind works very well. They are in it more for the fun than for any real passion or affection. They may seem detached to their partners. They will be faithful unless they get bored. Aquarius Mars can drive their partner mad with their “don’t care” attitude. Sex over the phone or computer is intriguing for them because it is all imagination. They crave variety and excitement.
Mars in Aquarius doesn’t have much temper unless you cross their cause. Sex is not important friendship is. If you want to have sex with an Aquarius Mars, you have to be their friend first, they have to like you generally. The aqua mars lacks drive unless they are working for a cause or group then they are tireless. This is a good placement for politicians and diplomats, the peace makers, they are combative, but prefer peace.
The telephone and the Internet are two inventions that have lifted sex to new heights for those with Sun, Venus or Mars in Aquarius. With either, you need not be in each other’s physical presence to have sex. Sex begins in the head with Mars in Aquarius people. Mars in Aquarius people enjoy this – because sex, potential sex or quasi-sex can take place with the mind. Fiery Mars in an Air sign indicates that talking, thinking and fantasizing about sex is a great turn-on. Mars in the sign of the Rebel indicates that these are men and women who stubbornly want to take the path less traveled when it comes to sexuality and relationships. It can also be dangerous because for the person with this placement, sex between a married and an unmarried person via telephone or computer is “safe” and not limited by any moral boundary.
Simply the idea of having sex is a thrill. Phone sex, cyber sex, cyber chat, and secret sexual activities not involving intercourse and that do not dissolve marriages, can be particularly seductive. The Mars in Aquarius person wants to spend time sharing fantasies – verbally, that is. They want to talk about sex, make innuendo about sex, and if the other person involved is on the geeky, oddball, offbeat or “different” side, all the better. They like the person who doesn’t quite fit the common mold – either is eccentric, looks different, dresses differently, or has an unusual career or lifestyle.
Insistent on getting their way, the Mars in Aquarius person will stand their ground and refuse to do anything other than what they want to do in a sexual relationship. They want to be in control. They will detach emotionally and in a clever and friendly manner dominate their partner.
You feel that it is your responsibility to change the world, and to touch as many lives as possible. Because you try to deal with your sexual relationships from an intellectual plane, you swing from extremely passionate to detached. Always unpredictable, you can be incredibly adventurous in the bedroom one day, and completely lazy the next.
Mars in Aquarius: determinedly pursues object of affection using an original approach; differentiates himself by talking about his principles, beliefs, pet causes, and idiosyncratic preferences when attempting to impress; trying something different is foreplay; initiates taboo, off-the-wall sex
Aquarius: The air signs may just be the kinkiest (barring Mars in Scorpio), as they have a certain detachment around how they experience the physical nature of lovemaking. Aquarius Mars wants to try new positions, sexual concepts, and experiment with the boundaries of lovemaking. This Mars will also be the first to dedicate their orgasm to the effort to create world peace.
Mars in WATER SIGNS: Cancer/Scorpio/Pisces: Engage the emotions
Suitors with Mars in WATER Signs act these ways to ATTAIN love…
* emotional…seem to feel things deeply; react too emotionally
* sensitive…seem sweet & vulnerable; make you feel protective
* unfathomable…seems impossible to really read their intentions
* fluid…seep into your heart through weak spots in your armour.
People with Mars in the Water signs Cancer, Scorpio and Pisces are soulfully sexual. That is, their feelings are profoundly connected to their sexuality. A strong emotional bond with their partner ignites their deepest passion.
Mars in CANCER acts…
* nurturing…cares for you and caters to your emotional needs
* mothering…babies you; pampers you; fusses over you; feeds you
* protective…makes you feel safe from harm or emotional hurts
* secure…offers a safe haven, a secure future with a nest-egg
* caring…wants to know and understand your feelings or fears
* sentimental…makes a fuss over special occasions and keepsakes.
With Mars in Cancer you have a sensitive and moody sexual energy. Your need for emotional connection must be satisfied in order for you to fully enjoy physical sex. In fact, you are likely to become emotionally attached to anyone you sleep with. It’s difficult for you to separate love and sex since they are, for your sign anyway, two sides of the same coin. You have a primal need to nurture and protect both yourself and those you love. This can make Mars in Cancer a sign that becomes too self protective and even passive aggressive in the pursuit of desires. Mixed signals are likely from this sign. When you are in pursuit of your desires however, you’re likely to be very romantic.
Cancer is the sentimental Mars sign. You’re turned on by gestures that connect you to your partner emotionally, such as playing “our” song or reminiscing about the times you’ve enjoyed together. An intimate home-cooked meal in a comfortable, homey environment is the perfect prelude to a romp between the sheets. Being exceptionally sensitive, your tendency is to crawl into your shell when angry instead of confronting your partner who needs to treat you gently.
Mars in Cancer is very sensual. They want to find a partner they truly love. Sex and love must go hand in hand. They need a lot of romance and affection or they will feel neglected. They can be so overwhelmed with the emotions of the moment that they may actually cry… it is part of their release. They make every effort to please their partners, even though they are not very adventurous in this area. They are not very demanding lovers. Mars in Cancer is very traditional, although there are a few who need to sleep with many people in order to feel wanted and attractive.
The thought of conceiving a baby may be very attractive to Cancer Mars. They are not very vocal about their wants or needs, and expect their partner to figure out what they like. They are exceptionally loyal to their partner, and expect the same in return.
Mars in Cancer can be too attached to the mommy’s breasts, they can be sulky, moody, emotional, mommy’s boys who are always looking for a woman to mother them, this is the fall placement for mars. They get an emotional attachment from sex, but the energy is not good for emotions, it can be emotionally disruptive. This is the placement that uses sex as a control tool. They are not emotionally stable and will go into their Cancerian shells if you hurt them, right after they tell you off in an explosive manner.
Do you find the thought of creating a child to be sexy? Then you may have Mars in Cancer. In this placement, the God of War meets the Cosmic Mother and she is immensely turned on at the thought that their sexual union could result in the manifestation of a child.
Emotional attachment is vital with Mars in Cancer. If you have Mars in Cancer you are attracted to someone you can nurture and who will nurture you. The sensual and sexual world is a very sensitive place for you – you feel very vulnerable. Logic and practicality are not at all strong here. Mars in Cancer intuitively picks up the vibrations of the other person and wants to merge with them. You are attracted to people who want to be mothered and they are attracted to you because they instinctively know you will mother them!
A moody and emotional person, you are quite sexual and sensual person once your partner has gotten to know you. Crying during lovemaking is quite common, whether you are female or male. The assertiveness and aggression of Mars is a bit lost here – lust is there, but it is apt to be hidden. It will not get shown until it feels SAFE. Being defensive or overly cautious can be a problem. You must learn to loosen up a bit. Unless other aspects in your chart indicate it, this is NOT the placement of a person who likes to have confrontation as part of lovemaking. If your nerves get frazzled or you have a lot to worry about your interest in sex disappears. Your mind, nerves and stomach (watch out for ulcers and digestive problems) cannot take a lot of frenetic activity before sliding between the sheets. Mars in Cancer loves domestic tranquility and security.
In a work setting people may think they can take advantage of you because you are not very assertive, may vacillate and may take on other’s responsibilities. You are an independent person who has personal and professional ambitions but you do not share them with people. That way you can take your time and approach the object of your desire without giving away your plan. Heh heh. If you begin to feel put upon, your crabbiness and withdrawal will surprise people. In professional pursuits, love, and lust, you take the circuitous route.
You are security driven, emotionally sensitive, and a regular mother hen. You take an emotionally driven approach to love, and your physical passion can be compared to art. You aim to please. If you feel your lover isn’t “in the moment” you are likely to roll over, or leave the room!
Mars in Cancer: haltingly pursues object of affection using a zig-zag, sideways, 2-steps-forward-1-step-backward approach; acts shy and quiet, but will adamantly defend a loved one against outsiders to show interest; providing a shoulder to lean (or cry) on, hugs, and cooking for someone/taking someone out to dinner are foreplay; initiates cuddling-that-hopefully-leads-to-sex sex
Cancer: Bonding with Mars in Cancer in an emotional way will open them up and turn them on. Sleeping and dreaming together increases their enjoyment of your connection, and so making the most of those in-between sleeping and waking times can yield pleasurable results. Slow is better; eye contact, soft caresses and impactful kissing will go even farther.
Mars in SCORPIO acts…
* smouldering…seems to have passions ready to flare any time
* sexual…seems strongly sexual; may have “an animal magnetism”
* intense…seems single-mindedly focused on you, or what they do
* probing…seems to stare into your soul, to sense your secrets
* mesmerizing…draws you in — so deeply you could lose yourself
* powerful…seems strong: a survivor, saviour –or slavemaster.
With Mars in Scorpio you have a magnetic energy and desires that run so deep they might intimidate other people. There’s an inner strength to this sign that no one can compete with. You have the power of a volcano inside your body, along with the self control that chooses when to allow it to explode. Mars in Scorpio is very much concerned with the deeper significance of sex and love. This sign wants full intensity and commitment in sex and will want to own a sexual partner. You may resort to manipulative or subversive tactics to accomplish this if you feel love is threatened. The attack of Mars in Scorpio is akin to the searing pain of burns on your flesh. But just as you are capable of these dark depths, the heights your energy can achieve are more healing than any other.
With Mars in Scorpio, passion runs strong and deep. Your penetrating nature enables you to thoroughly explore not only your partner’s body, but their mind and soul as well. All things mysterious turn you on – creating a dark, sultry ambiance and sexy (hidden) lingerie are probably part of your amorous arsenal. When angry, you can seethe forever before your control falters and you erupt like a volcano. Forgiveness and letting go of resentment are your challenges.
They are very passionate and sensual. They are attractive to the opposite sex no matter what they look like physically. Their personal magnetism is powerful. Scorpio Mars is intense, and this can be too much for some people. Sex is an all-encompassing experience; it is intensely physical, emotional and erotic. They can be a bit obsessive, and may be attracted to the darker side of sex. Mars in Scorpio equates sex with power. They are faithful to their partner. They can be very complex, and they need their partner to want to share the depth and intensity of the experience. They don’t kiss and tell; they believe sex to be an intimate and personal issue. They give great emotional depth to their partners. They may focus on breaking sexual taboos, if their partner is up to it. Mars in Scorpio is a bit possessive of their partners. While they probably won’t admit it, they don’t like to share their partners with anyone, not even for social engagements or family obligations.
Mars in Scorpio is a powerful placement and can manifest in many ways but all are intense. Intensity is an absolute with this placement. They need sex to survive, like food, Mars in Scorpio is passion personified. They are good in a mortuary and are fascinated with death, guns, knives, and danger. Along with a fascination with death, you will get the occult, Satanism, sociopaths etc., the possibilities are endless with this placement. Scorpio Mars is complicated, they are master manipulators Do not piss them off they are truly dangerous they can wait for revenge … they never forget and never forgive. Maybe not today, or tomorrow, but someday they will get you.
Depth, intensity, power, control, privacy. These words are key to understanding how a person with Mars in Scorpio approaches relationships and sex. They may make up rules and regulations, and use sex as a weapon in order to gain they desire from the other person – absolute enthrallment. In their complex approached to sexuality and relationships they can be likely to want their lover to do anything and everything – including things that would make many walk away and close the door forever. This is after they make their lover wait for what may seem an endless period of time while they demonstrate their power and self-control by being unavailable and abstaining for long periods of time, giving in only when they feel their partner is deserving. It is not unusual for the partner of a Mars in Scorpio person to find they must beg for sex.
Always a mystery, you have a quiet way of mending others to your will. You exude sexuality, and have enough drive to meet and exceed your lover’s expectations. You are an imaginative, creative lover who is eager to please… and be pleased.
Mars in Scorpio: obsessively pursues object of desire using a strategic approach; attracts love by getting people to let down their guards, providing emotional therapy, and delivering on unspoken promises of provocative sex; foreplay is continuous, penetrating eye contact, caressing, and anything oral; initiates all-consuming, us-against-the-world sex
Scorpio: A passionate, intense approach yields an equally powerful response. Subtle energetics which begin long before any physical touching takes place is the type of foreplay most pleasing to Mars in Scorpio. They have an intuitive sense of how to please and know what they like. If you can pick up on their non-verbal cues and trust your gut, this connection can be a transformative one.
Mars in PISCES acts…
* secretly…may secretly want you; or seduce in a secret affair
* sweet and demure…seems sensitive and vulnerable, or coy, or shy
* soulful…seeks to share deep feelings, and to touch your soul
* self-sacrificing…serves your needs first; loses self-identity
* surreal…lives in another world; seeks to escape from reality
* spiritual…may see you as a spiritual guide; or act as yours.
With Mars in Pisces your energy for compassion and sacrifice could lead you to be quite a tender lover. It can also work against you if you allow your fear or guilt of your normal, healthy sex drive to get the best of you. You may have a difficult time with Mars in Pisces when it comes to actively pursuing that which you desire. In fact, you might dream of your desires rather than go after them. Sexual fantasies are strong with Mars in Pisces and the ideal lover is a dream that you somehow always search for, yet never seem able to grasp. Still, your creative energy is your strength and you will be quite imaginative in sex or in any other creative direction for your assertive powers.
Pisces is the spiritual Mars sign. What turns you on is being “one” with your partner. You need to create a soul-to-soul connection. You’re attracted to sensitive, artistic people who have a compassionate nature. Pisces rules fantasy, so you can excel at keeping your partner mesmerized by imaginative costumes and role-playing. When angry, Pisces also excels at denial, so you may deny (or not even realize) you’re angry until your partner clobbers you over the head with evidence to the contrary.
Mars in Pisces is romantic, though their needs are more emotional than physical. They are very idealistic about love. Sex is more like a fantasy. Their sensitivity helps them be very responsive to their partner. They need a lot of affection. Without it, they feel sex is cold and emotionless. They need an emotional connection to their partner to be fulfilled. Even better, they are ecstatic when they also have a spiritual connection with their partner.
They are very sensuous, and without the intimacy of lots of touching and romance, they are left feeling unloved. Their imagination is terrific, and they can indulge in a lot of romantic fantasies before they even go out with someone. They are willing to please, but they are not aggressive. They always play it passively. They can appear to be detached or spaced out. They like lots of details when they fantasize, creating intricate storylines and sidelines. They are attracted to those who need their care and compassion.
Mars does not function well in the passive sign of Pisces, their feelings get hurt easily. They don’t fight, they cry. Mars in Pisces is bad for addictions but good for drag queens they live in their imagination seeing reality is very hard here. They usually drown out reality with addictions. Other aspects can give them strength. They are very accepting of people and their situations, their lives are all about gray, nothing is black and white here. They befriend everybody, alcoholics, drag queens etc. the weirder the better because they fit it in that environment, they chose people who are different so they can be as different as they want. This is the most mutable of the mutables. They usually love the water, have bad feet and are low energy.
Knowing what they wants and actually putting forth the energy to get it is challenging for the person with Mars in Pisces. This person is confusing to their lover because s/he floats all over the place getting to the goal – and that floating can take many stagnant and addictive forms: sex, drugs, alcohol, pathological lying or having sexual affairs.
The use of subtlety to achieve what s/he wants in a relationship is a forte of the person with Mars in Pisces. This person is not above head games. At the same time they can be especially susceptible to getting involved with those who use the same type of tactics.
If you want a partner who will do anything sexually, you can find it in a person with Mars in Pisces. Even if it is not exactly what they want, they will “serve” you by doing what you want sexually…with the covert end goal of eventually getting what they desire. Oh, can this person make you feel tremendously guilty if you later refuse them their wishes and they point out how they did this, that and THAT other thing for you. Like a chameleon, the Mars in Pisces person will change attitudes and actions to suit the moment, to elicit an answer, and to get what they want. Sometimes they are shy and romantic; at other times they are picayune and insistent on creating the perfect moment in the perfect relationship and they will stop at nothing to attain it. Carrying a lot of love and compassion within themselves, they may even take on a relationship where they are nursemaid to someone they perceive needs their ministrations for healing purposes. They can pay a price though, for this submerging of their selves. To deal with the pain of accommodating other’s wishes and disguising their aims, they may resort of abusing alcohol or drugs, lying, and/or having sexual affairs. By doing so they can figuratively wear rose-colored glasses and make the world look fine. However they can also drown in their oceanic fantasy land.
On the flip side, they actually can demonstrate so much love and care with you if they are your partner that you will feel truly merged and known, down to your soul. Encourage them to get into acting, singing, dancing, painting etc or some form of humanitarian or charity work and they will be better able to balance out the competitive fire of Mars and the mutable water of Pisces.
You are very future oriented and dedicated to your long range goals. You can be hopelessly romantic, and your sex drive is directly connected to your emotional nature. Because you feel closer to your partner at intimate moments, you can be a sensuous and passionate lover. But if you get distracted, you may forget that your lover is in the room.
Mars in Pisces: secretly pursues object of affection using a passive approach; impresses by knowing the right thing to do or say to make someone feel better, sharing psychic insights, and displaying creative talents; dancing, playing music, discussing dreams/innermost feelings, and generally pleasing the other person is foreplay; initiates pleasant vibes, which lead to transcendental, out-of-body-experiences sex.
Pisces: If you can weave a fairy tale story for your lovemaking — a kind of magical narrative that sweeps you both along — you will leave your Mars in Pisces wanting more, wondering what happens next in the sexy story of your connection. Mars in Pisces also responds particularly well when music is added to the lovemaking menu, and they appreciate a gentle yet imaginative touch.