08. What attracts men? What is his type of woman?
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Astrology can offer us a few clues as to what types of people men and women are attracted to. What follows is a simplistic model for determining the “ideal” woman for a man.
Traditionally, astrologers have interpreted the position and condition of Venus in the natal chart differently depending on the gender of the native. The reason for treating Venus in men’s and women’s chart differently is based on the idea that men may tend to “disown” the qualities of Venus in his own chart. Since the energies of Venus have to go somewhere, when a man doesn’t “own”, or identify with, his Venus, the energies would be projected onto the women he meets and relates with. Similarly, women are thought to more easily relate to and “own” Venus qualities. The concept of projection is an interesting and valid one. However, while it may hold true with Venus to some extent today, we prefer not to attach gender bias to Venus and Mars. In our experience, men and women tend to take on the role of Venus in their relationships in approximately equal measure.
However, the position of Venus by sign in a man’s chart does tend to offer some clues as to what he will find attractive in a woman. This is because Venus reveals what we love, find pleasing, and what turns us on to some degree. (Mars helps to round out the picture in terms of sexual attraction and style). If you don’t know the sign position of Venus, all you need is a birth date!
To some degree, what you see here also applies if you have the Sun in this Sign. But for a man it is his Moon and Venus Signs which best indicate the types of woman he is most attracted to, or may choose for a mate, especially the Moon.
NOTES TO WOMEN
(1) If a WOMAN reads these same descriptions which match her own Venus Sign, she may find some strong similarities between the traits men with that Venus Sign look for in a lover, and the ways she tends to express her own femininity. It is natural for a woman to quite unconsciously slip into a mode of expression matching her own Venus Sign “type” when she is in the presence of men she would like to attract or flirt with.
(2) If a WOMAN reads these same descriptions which match her own Moon Sign, she may find some strong similarities between these traits men of the same Moon Sign look for in a wife (or mother of their children), and the kind of man who makes her feel safe and secure and protected.
There is a good chance her own choice of mate will have similar qualities (or he may have his Sun in that Sign).
These “types” also come into play when a man is attracted in a platonic way to another man when he admires his “style” – how he expresses himself in his actions and appearance. (For a gay male, these “types” also apply to the type of man who attracts him.) Both men and women will likely find many of their most “comfortable” friends have the Sun in the same Sign as their own Moon. The Moon is about how you feel comfortable, safe, and secure in any close relationship; while Venus is more about how you give and receive affection; how you act to attract partners (as friends or lovers) or get attracted to them; and especially for men, it symbolizes the kind of person you view as your ideal lover.
The position of Venus in a man’s chart, by sign.
If a man’s Venus is in Aries, he is often attracted to a tomboyish woman, perhaps athletic in appearance, but more importantly, direct, forthright, and straightforward. Ultra sensitive or shy women are not usually the most attractive women to these men, as they tend to prefer strong and independent types.
If you have Venus in Aries, my, Mon Cherie— you are like the lovable cartoon skunk Pepe LePew (in character, not necessarily in scent!). You know what you want in a relationship, and you feel best when you don’t let your fears stop you from going after it. To try and fail is much better than to isolate yourself from any chance of happiness! You need motion, movement, excitement and are attracted to a fired-up person who enjoys a good game or competition as much as you do. It’s important to recognize this and set up healthy forms of play for yourself. Otherwise you may stir up discord just to get a “charge” of energy.
The Aries Male is a dynamic go-getter who wants to be overwhelmed by passion and emotion, and cannot stand for things to become complacent or routine. He likes his partners to be powerful and motivated, beautiful, and the sexual equivalent of a tornado. His hair-triggered anger and self-righteous attitude can take some getting used to, but he does cool down as quickly as he heats up. Boredom is the quickest way to make him stray, but that is only if you’ve proven exciting enough to get a commitment out of him in the first place.
If a man’s Venus is in Taurus, he is often attracted to women with hourglass figures, who come across as natural and calm, and rather feminine. More traditional feminine types are often preferred, as opposed to aggressive or in-your-face personas. Sensual but simple auras are most attractive to these men. Sweetness, and a simple voluptuousness in a woman is ideal.
Like the bull, Venus in Taurus is earthy, sensual, slow and deliberate. Taurus is associated with the neck and shoulders; that’s why you love to have them rubbed. You are extremely sensual and affectionate. You enjoy the finer things in life and have expensive taste. Quality is more important than quantity. Keep that in mind and you won’t be such a pack-rat! You need a stable, dependable partner, even if you are not so “together” yourself.
The Taurus Male is a mountain of integrity and strength, loyal and loving. He has a habit of seeing things as either black or white, so while he may be discussing, you may be arguing in an attempt to get him to change his views. He expects the same level of loyalty that he gives, and will toss a flirty lover to the curb for flirting with anyone other than him – his piles of erotica don’t count as an indiscretion from his viewpoint. Anything he may be lacking in an adventuresome spirit sexually, is made up for by his sexual appetite.
If a man’s Venus is in Gemini, intelligence or liveliness are often more important than drop-dead good looks. An athletic or tomboyish look, sometimes on the slim side, is often preferred.
Gemini is the sign of sparrows and butterflies, and Venus in Gemini will often sample many flowers before settling down. You’re a free spirit and wonderful conversationalist. Venus in Gemini has earned a reputation as the incorrigible flirt. Whether or not that is true of you, you value your freedom and would wither without it. It’s important that your partner understands this about you. Gemini rules the hands— yours are expressive, and you love to have them massaged and held.
The Gemini Male is an introverted extravert. Charisma, humor, and intellect may be the image he projects, but no matter how close you get – you can never be quite certain what is on his mind. He wants a partner who shows just enough emotion to validate that he is awesome, but not too much emotion that it will become complicated. He is seriously committed to remaining uncommitted, unless he stumbles across a super-achiever who can keep up with the conversation, reach their own goals without his assistance, and be packed and ready to go on an adventure at the drop of a dime. That, in his mind, is an amore worth considering.
If a man’s Venus is in Cancer, he may prefer women who come across as sweet, soft, and warm. He is not as inclined to go for women who are model-thin, tomboy-ish, or for the high-profile career type. He often is attracted to more traditionally feminine looks, simply dressed (not gaudy or flashy). Understated but feminine summer dresses, accentuated breasts (natural, not “enhanced”), an aura of innocence or neediness, and the promise of devotedness are usually turn-ons. Venus in Cancer men often go out of their way to avoid feeling rejected, and this is mirrored in their attraction to women who are not too aggressive, loud, or overly confident.
Venus in Cancer wants to nurture and be nurtured in a relationship. Security and emotional bonding are important to you, and it’s very hard to let go of a relationship, even if it’s a bad one. Cancer is a water sign, and water is very soothing to your emotions. Cancer rules the stomach and breasts. (You may draw your own conclusions!) Crabs scurry sideways instead of straight forward. Sometimes this saves you from an uncomfortable situation, but other times it’s important for you to say what you mean, address the issue directly, rather than beating around the bush.
The Cancer Male is a romantic’s dream, who plays the part of courtier well. He is honest and devoted, and when his heart melts, his every breath is drawn in to be with the one that he loves. He is very protective and can be equally as possessive, often becoming jealous of time spent with friends, relatives, or even the family dog. He wants a partner who swoons at the sight of him, is part mind-reader, (his lover is supposed to intuitively know why he is sulking) and who will find joy simply in being the center of his world.
If a man’s Venus is in Leo, he may be attracted to women who are proud, outgoing, and perhaps even gaudy. Aloofness or a dignified, confident aura is usually appealing to these men. These men are more inclined to enjoy women who wear a good deal of makeup and jewelry. Flashiness is often appealing, although some will prefer a slightly more understated look. The bottom line, however, is usually a rather bold, confident manner.
Proud Mary! Fabio! Venus in Leo wants to be admired and adored. Leo is the sign of gold, royalty, and children. The best partners and friends for you are those who will play with you, who encourage that childlike wonder in you. You lavish your partner with compliments and shows of appreciation. Gold, purple, and glitz are your colors. You express yourself dramatically. You need to find an outlet for this in your life, such as painting or theater, or you might create soap opera theatrics in your personal life which can be harmful in your relationships. Leo rules the heart and spine.
The Leo Male is strong and affectionate, with a magnetic personality filled with fun and good cheer. He tends to be very generous, and successful enough to recover from his sprees without skipping a beat. He is attracted to beauty in all forms of lovers, specifically the ones who are adept at adoring him. In bed, the King of Beasts will live up to the title, but before you’re done purring, he’s probably raiding the fridge or making a sandwich. This man will give away his heart fully and with great ease, but from time to time he is likely to forget with whom he left it!
If a man’s Venus is in Virgo, an appealing woman to him is usually an understated, rather simple appearance without too much glamour or ostentatiousness. Healthy, natural, and clean are most appealing physical qualities, and a certain amount of intelligence as well as a modest, sensible approach to life.
Virgo is the sign of the master craftsman. Venus in Virgo wants a relationship that is efficient and “built to last.” It’s your nature to be careful and cautious in your selection of a mate, because you want a solid, down-to-earth partnership that makes life easier for the both of you. It isn’t that you aren’t romantic, it’s just that your way of expressing love is being helpful. Virgo rules the digestive tract. Sorry, but you’ll just have to find somewhere else to be rubbed!
The Virgo Male is the industrious sort who finds work to be oddly exciting. He’s the one who is just as likely to softly grin caressing the finish of his new file cabinet the way others would the curve of a lover’s hip. Always searching for ways to improve things, he tends to be attracted to people who need his help or guidance in some way, but they must also be intelligent and competent in their own right. He tends to look at love with the same zest and vigor as any other work to be done. In other words, love is meant to be shaped into perfect harmony (well, almost perfect!). He is selfish and selfless, and can freeze an active volcano or melt the polar ice caps, depending on the day. But with a partner who loves him compassionately, his devotion grows every day.
If a man’s Venus is in Libra, he is most attracted to femininity expressed as understated charm, good manners, and a simple but beautiful appearance. Coarseness or rudeness is often a turn-off.
Fairness is the most important thing with Venus in Libra. You want things to balance, give and take. Air is your element, and things of the air are soothing to you— birds, mobiles, incense. Because relationships are so important to you, you tend to put a lot of importance on your partner’s enjoyment or happiness. You’re a good compromiser, and that works for you as long as you don’t compromise your core needs and values. Libra rules the skin and kidneys. (We won’t go there!)
The Libra Male is the life of the party, the kind of guy you just want to be around. Strong of mind, body, character and success, he tends to have a playboy past and is likely to throw over the latest bubble-headed beauty for a quiet, loyal, sweetheart who may turn a few less heads (but can intellectually hold their ground). For all that he is, and all that he has achieved, he tends to have abandonment issues that can run fairly deep. His deepest desire is to complete himself with the one he loves, and if it takes a hundred tries before they get it right – he’ll just keep on trying!
If a man’s Venus is in Scorpio, the femme fatale is just fine for him. He is especially attracted to women who ooze sensuality, who are perhaps a little dark and mysterious, and who have a magnetic and powerful aura.
Still waters run deep. That’s Venus in Scorpio. You are attracted to someone with an intense, mysterious look, probably a quiet type. You do not fall in love often or easily. You form very deep bonds. Letting go of a love is difficult for you because it feels like death. But when it’s over, it’s over. Your love life is a series of eras, punctuated by periods of intense change or crisis. You enjoy deep, intense experiences and lovers. You may even provoke a fight, just so you can make up again. Scorpio rules the bowels and genitals.
The Scorpio Male tends to be physically alluring and intellectually frustrating. He always knows the answer before he asks the question, he just wants to see how you’ll respond. His sexuality can excite the coldest, stillest waters of any pond, and yet sex is not the mission with the ones with whom he shares his charm. He is attracted to partners who are independent but loyal, intelligent, but not too inquisitive. Even the most committed Scorpio man has a way of making a lover wonder. He is pride and mystery, and if he doesn’t choose to drive you mad with silence and intrigue, he is likely to sweep you just far enough off your feet that you’ll be holding on for life – even after he’s long gone.
If a man’s Venus is in Sagittarius, an energetic, happy aura in a woman is often most appealing. Generally these men are attracted to a clean, robust, athletic look, generally slim but not necessarily well-groomed. A tousled, casual appearance is just fine with these men.
Sagittarius is the sign of the traveler, and Venus in Sag usually loves to travel or is drawn to friends and partners from other countries. You love to socialize and visit, and need plenty of time and space to do so, even if you are in a committed relationship. You need a partner who is free and easy; the jealous type isn’t for you. Sag rules the hips and thighs.
The Sagittarius Male is charming enough to teach a snake to samba, and equally as intriguing to be around. He is upbeat and ingenious, and some may say even a bit unorthodox, but definitely someone you like to be around. Lovers tend to overwhelm him, (they don’t understand that a commitment has a lifespan of about two weeks) but he’ll happily thrill you with humor and romance as long as it’s still a chase. The person he catches tends to quickly be re-released into the dating wild. The Sagittarius man is like an over-grown boy, who will claim to be invincible, right up until he’s put in his grave.
If a man’s Venus is in Capricorn, he often finds a woman who has an aura of competence about her very appealing. More classic looks, as well as a career-oriented look are most appealing. Sometimes, older women are especially appealing to these men.
Venus in Capricorn tends to age well, and approaches love purposefully and dutifully. Like Venus in Scorpio, you do not fall in love easily or often. You want stability in your partner, a solid foundation you can count on. Capricorn rules the knees, which may be one of your favorite erogenous zones. You may be in business with your partner, or run your family like a business! Capricorn is tuned in to the passage of time; maybe you have a thing about clocks.
The Capricorn Male exudes strength and endurance, professionally as well as in the bedroom. He tends to be quite accomplished, and looks for attractive partners who can hold a conversation but pale in comparison with his own intelligence. With an agreeable lover, he can spend less energy controlling and manipulating, which frees his time to shower them with the finer things in life, because they have met his expectations and deserve to be pampered and rewarded.
If a man’s Venus is in Aquarius, he can be most impressed by women who are somewhat unconventional or kooky in their choice of clothes and overall style. He wants an interesting woman. She can certainly be beautiful, but boring? Hardly.
Venus in Aquarius tends to pick a lover from their circle of friends. You’re not the “swoony” type; you prefer a more easygoing partner. You are able to be objective about your relationships in a way that is refreshing to some people and absolutely unnerving to those who express themselves in a more dramatic or emotional way. You like friends and lovers who are unorthodox and march to their own beat, even if you yourself are a more conventional type.
The Aquarius Male has the mind of an inventor and the intellect and vocabulary of the most esteemed professor. All things new and developmental exist to be pondered and explored, his thirst and ability to absorb knowledge and theory is profound. He tends to appear serene and collected, at times eccentric or standoffish, but this is merely the wrapper for a humane and kind soul. He is most attracted to freedom loving partners who have kind hearts and empathetic souls. While life is but a playground for the Aquarius male, his loyalty and devotion to his chosen one hinges on the respect of his ideals and space – without fail.
If a man’s Venus is in Pisces, he is often impressed with a feminine aura of softness, sweetness, and neediness to a certain degree. She need not be robust or aggressive. Lacking in confidence is just fine, and so is a touch of helplessness.
Pisces is the most psychically sensitive sign of the Zodiac. Love in the sign of the fishes is artistic, otherworldly, floaty; it ebbs and flows like the ocean. Saying no is difficult for you, so you tend to drift out of a relationship rather than break it off. Pisces is the most psychic sign. It’s helpful to realize you can feel other people’s feelings as well as your own. That’s why clarity is hard to come by sometimes, and why spending some time by yourself is very good for you. Pisces rules the feet— yours may be so sensitive that you don’t like them touched. If not, you love for someone to rub them.
The Pisces Male has a healthy respect for life, particularly when seen through his humorous eyes. He is the modern-day mystic, sans the tranquility training. He is charming and romantic, beautifully surreal. He can be obsessive and moody one minute – at times pouring out his soul – and the next, be extremely still and private. He loves deeply, and emotionally, and can find himself easily attached – but always searching for a new level of intensity. He is most attracted to beautiful people who are strong enough to keep him in line, and smart enough to do so privately with respect and compassion. The Pisces male is notorious for wanting what he can’t have and sometimes living in the melancholy memory (or bottle!) of the past he’s left behind.
Influence of moonsign in type of Woman
A man’s Moon sign certainly factors into the “equation”. While Venus offers clues as to what type of women and situations attract a man on a romantic level, the Moon reveals what qualities makes a man feel comfortable and warm. Sometimes we see men with very different Venus and Moon signs who have distinctly different “types” of women when it comes to pure attraction and those he would consider as long-term or relationship material. For example, a man with Venus in Aries and Moon in Taurus might be attracted to forthright, independent women in general, but as far as “selecting” a woman for a long-term partnership goes, he might choose a more demure woman with steady affections and a softer, more traditionally “feminine” personality and/or appearance.
Moon or Venus in Aries
The type of woman who attracts you demonstrates a sense of independence and is bold, adventurous, or spontaneous. Think “Xena, Warrior Princess”.
You’ll respect the freedom of a woman like this; and might even encourage her to be more independent than she really wants to be. You admire strength and courage.
The “fiery” type can arouse you. “Competitive” women interest you.
You enjoy a challenge, and may find it enjoyable to be “chased” or seduced by an assertive woman – while offering sufficient resistance to make it interesting.
Strong, competitive, or athletic women may appeal to you; and some form of “competition” such as games or sports might be a turn-on for you. You want to win, but you can respect a woman who gives you a good match.
You may have a particular attraction to “women in uniform”. Of all the Moon and Venus Signs, you are the most likely to date a policewoman, military type, or security guard.
Moon or Venus in Taurus
The type of woman who attracts you is cute, cuddly, calm and comfortable, and shows affection with caresses and kisses.
You prefer women who are easy-going, earthy and sensuous, not too independent or energetic.
Women who appeal are “all woman” in the traditional sense. You may find “the scent of a woman” arousing.
Physical sensations are important to you, so a woman who is physically demonstrative in her affections and who enjoys sharing physical pleasures with you is your type of woman. This includes all the five senses – anything like fine dining, cuddling on the couch, listening to enjoyable music, or watching a sunset.
You feel close to Mother Nature, and may enjoy a woman who shares a love of the outdoors and/or animals.
You may be particularly attracted to women who can sing or have a pleasant, almost melodic, voice.
Moon or Venus in Gemini
The type of woman who attracts you is clever and changeable, and can keep you guessing. You can be drawn to average-looking women who are witty and interesting, more than to the “beautiful but boring” types.
Curious minds and quick tongues can turn you on. Witty flirtation and an interesting conversation is the best seduction for you; and women who are either good talkers or good listeners can attract you.
A relationship in which communication plays a big part is one which feels most comfortable to you. You like to hear the words of love.
Your biggest fear is boredom, so a woman who is forever changing, or has a zest for life, is your type of woman. Curiosity can keep you interested, so a complex woman can intrigue you.
You may like high-strung or talkative women, as long as they are interesting.
You may find a woman’s hands, and the way she expresses herself with them, are a particular attraction
Moon or Venus in Cancer
The type of woman who attracts you is one who could comfort and care for you – who would “mother” you. If she feeds you and fusses over you, she may soon see you sharing her home – since home is where you most want to feel wanted and cherished and comforted.
You naturally act as a protector and care-giver to those you feel affection for, and seek similar treatment – for that is how you feel loved and safe and secure.
The “old-fashioned girl” appeals to you – or one who is looking for the house with the white picket fence and children in the yard.
You are especially prone to be attracted to a partner who appears like your personal image of the perfect mother – or even reminds you of your own mother (if you were emotionally close to her).
A woman who is especially “motherly” attracts you – either by her mother-like nature, or by symbols of motherliness like a large bosom, wide hips, or even a plumpness that resembles a pregnant woman.
Moon or Venus in Leo
The type of woman who attracts you is one you feel proud to be seen with – one who makes you look good and wins admiring glances that can reflect admiration onto you.
A woman who’s gorgeous or dramatic or regal or aloof turns you on. Looks lie, yet glamour gets you. You may choose a partner more for good looks or popularity than for real compatibility on all levels.
It is particularly important to feel you can admire and respect your mate, and feel admired and respected in return.
You expect loyalty, and need to feel appreciated and – above all – NOTICED. Feeling ignored or unappreciated makes you feel insecure, so you can be enticed by a woman who flatters you with praise or attention.
You could be attracted to a woman who is “the boss” at work – perhaps to a “bossy” woman. Passion or “drama” helps too.
Moon or Venus in Virgo
The type of woman who attracts you looks neat and clean, or well-groomed and conservatively-dressed – and, above all, appears “proper”. You want: intelligent, honest, healthy, reliable, modest, refined, efficient, practical, methodical, loyal and faithful…but you might settle for “perfect”!
Good manners and good taste are turn-ons for you, as are “competency” and skillfulness.
You can be slowly seduced by a woman who makes herself useful to you in ways that make you feel you cannot get along without her.
A Virgo paradox is that while seeking the perfect person (and rejecting many who were judged not perfect enough) is a priority – sometimes the chosen one is a less-than-perfect partner who could be “fixed” or reformed (like an alcoholic). Sometimes the hard lesson learned later is that you can’t fix people who don’t want to be fixed.
Moon or Venus in Libra
The type of woman who attracts you has “class” but isn’t too formal… sort of sophisticated but not stuck-up… sort of hard-to-please but easy to live with… sort of sincere… No! REAL sincere! Definitely not phoney, or rude or crude or violent!
Grace, charm, and beauty are great attractions to you. You can be “charmed” by a romantic and feminine “fair lady”.
You seek “harmony” in a relationship, yet your real need is to create harmony, so you may actually be drawn to (or passively instigate) conflicts with a more emotionally volatile partner, which can present new challenges for your peace-making talents.
A totally serene relationship is what you seek; yet when achieved it is boring to you – so you like to shake things up a little now and then.
Being IN a one-on-one relationship is the only way you feel secure, so relationships are your top priority – and this includes friendships and business partnerships too.
Moon or Venus in Scorpio
The type of woman who attracts you is very vital and gutsy, and passionate and intense. You go for dynamic and powerful types of women – who aren’t wishy-washy or weak-willed, or passive or push-overs. Niceness bores you… but intensity interests you.
You can be enticed by secret affairs or “dangerous liasons”.
You probably “test” the willpower of your partners, and don’t really respect them unless they can stand up to your own strong personality. Or the opposite may occur – where you are drawn to a women with a stronger will (such as women with Sun or Mars in Scorpio).
Sexuality is a very important part of your relationships, and you can be enticed by a woman with a raw “animal magnetism” or overtly sexual appearance.
There is often an element of psychological power struggles in your relationships, even if on a subconscious level.
Moon or Venus in Saggitarius
The type of woman who attracts you is honest, direct, and reliable – who can be your “pal”. You like a woman who’s playful one minute, and philosophical the next.
Above all, companionship, honesty, and idealism appeal to you – and a sense of humor! You also like “outdoorsy”, athletic, or adventurous types; and can be attracted to women who are “foreign” to you by race, religion, or country of origin – or all three!To some degree, what you see here also applies if you have the Sun in this Sign. But for a man it is his Moon and Venus Signs which best indicate the types of woman he is most attracted to, or may choose for a mate, especially the Moon.
You need your “space” and freedom in relationships; yet with a partner who allows you this freedom, you feel less of a need to actually exercise it! Just to know you have the freedom to choose is the important thing. You may not commit to a lasting relationship while young, remaining single until you’re ready to trade total independence for the benefits of an intimate, lasting partnership.
Your natural friendliness can be mistaken by some for a sexual interest; and you are as likely to confuse a woman’s friendliness with romantic interest. You may find that many of your potential romances actually end up as platonic friendships instead.
Moon or Venus in Capricornus
The type of woman who attracts you is socially acceptable and somewhat formal or aloof – and serious about success or status.
If she can boost your image or your career or finances, then likely she’ll draw your interest – as may “Old Money” or OLDER women. As you get older yourself, you may be attracted to much YOUNGER women.
Powerful women or “executive” types also interest you; and it is important to you that you can regard your mate as competent and responsible and mature.
You are afraid of rejection, so may act rather shy or reserved – and can be drawn to a woman who is either equally reserved, or is willing to be assertive enough to take the emotional risks you can’t take yourself.
You may appear to fear commitment, but what you really want is a very committed relationship with the right woman who will take commitment as seriously as you do – and you will wait as long as it takes until you are certain.
Moon or Venus in Aquarius
The type of woman who attracts you is intelligent, independent, free-spirited, and a good conversationalist. Should she keep you guessing, or be a bit off-beat or unconventional, she’ll fascinate you – but if she’s too emotional, you’ll pass.
Especially while young, you may be drawn to women who are not really available for a lasting relationship (because of distance or inability to make commitments, or a prior commitment to someone else).
This is usually because you may not yet be ready to make lasting commitments, and value your “space” and freedom more than emotional bonds or truly intimate relationships.
When you are ready to commit, you will. Meanwhile, you may be attracted to “free spirits”, “space cadets”, or even somewhat “strange” women.
Idealists or rebels also have a particular appeal to you. Politics may play a part in the attraction. Political foes might make strange bedfellows.
Moon or Venus in Pisces
The type of woman who attracts you is romantic and emotional, or sensitive and passive. Should she be intriguing or mysterious or able to make you feel secure, she could really appeal to you.
You’re a sucker for secret love affairs, and for people who need help or emotional support. You are compassionate yourself, and respond to women who are especially compassionate, caring, and selfless.
You may be attracted to especially creative or imaginative women, like artists and poets; or to women who are psychics or empaths (like Counselor Troi in the TV series “Star Trek, The Next Generation”).
The sweet, ultra-feminine type of woman appeals to you – such as the “Southern Belle” or “Old-Fashioned Girl”.
Saving a “damsel in distress” is a turn-on for you – and so is being helped or healed by a sympathetic savior or caring comforter or compassionate nurse.