05. Sexual style according to venus and mars

Keywords Venussigns: what attracts you?

In a man this is the type of beauty, sometimes only physical appearances but most of the time it also has to do with the vibe someone radiates. This can be the venussign as well as the moonsign.

For a female who has venus or moon in the signs, she can give it meaning in her life like hobbies, jobs, clothing style, jewelry, affinities, friends that are associated with the venus or moonsign.

Aries – rough, Taurus – pleasure seeking, Gemini – flirtatious, Cancer – feminine, Leo – shining, Virgo – chaste, Libra – charming, Scorpio – tempting, Saggitarius – lighthearted, Capricornus – aloof, Aquarius – imaginative, Pisces – sentimental.

Keywords Marssigns: how do you act?

With men this is how his ideal will act, most of the time the same as he would act. It is not so much about phyisical beauty but more about emotional vibe, charisma, sex appeal that triggers sexual feelings.

For women the mars and sunsign is the ideal of her type o man, at least part of it. Females have complexer images about the men they are attracted to than men about the women they are attracted to. A female can for example be sexually attracted to a man, but that doesn’t mean there is an indication for a future relationship, while for a man the sexual attraction most of the time is a reason to start a contact with a woman.

Aries – untenable, Taurus – possessive, Gemini – restless, Cancer – laborious, Leo – fiery, Virg0 – constrained, Libra – easy going, Scorpio – mastermind, Saggitarius – unstoppable, Capricornus – persistant, Aquarius – adverse, Pisces – flexible.

Venus or Mars in Aries
These fiery rams love sex – especially when it’s spontaneous and uninhibited. Some might say they are addicted to the thrill of the chase. Their heads are their erogenous zones. And they really love it when you grab their hair and touch their face as they are making love. They can sometimes be a bit selfish as lovers, and can be impatient if the foreplay goes on too long – they really like to get down to business. Their desires are powerful that they can sometimes be a bit aggressive. While some signs love romance, the ram is interested in their lover’s sexual organs – plain and simple.

When Venus or Mars is in Aries, sex is best when it’s spontaneous and unrestricted. These people melt when their partner gives themselves to them innocently and purely. Some of them look for trouble in love, and are addicted to the conquest. Their heads are erogenous zones—they love it when you mess up their hair and grab their face when they are making love. They can be rather selfish in bed, and quick. They can get impatient with too much foreplay, preferring to get right to the point. Sometimes aggressive, and generally fast, these lovers are sincere and enthusiastic in their sexual expression, but not always constant. Their desires are powerful indeed. While other signs may be most aroused by the romance of the moment, both male and females with this position are especially aroused by their partner’s sexual organs, plain and simple. These people fall in and out of “crush” easily—they only feel alive when they have someone to desire.

Venus or Mars in Taurus
These hot-blooded bulls are the most physical and sensual partners. They may not be as spontaneous as rams, but they are good at what they do. Their sexual stamina during lovemaking is impressive – and it can be very difficult for bulls to abstain, so be prepared to keep going into the evening. Don’t try to intellectualize sex, either – because the lovemaking style is natural, and physically based. Do give a little extra attention to the neck and throat area – this is their erogenous zone, and a good place to go when it’s time to raise the sexual temperature.

When Venus or Mars is in Taurus, the sexual nature involves all of the senses. Touch and smell are supremely important to these lovers. These are the most physical of sexual partners. No frills sex is quite fine, as long as the mood is right and there is plenty of physical contact. These lovers don’t have a reputation for spontaneity or variety, but they are good at what they do nonetheless, simply because they are truly right there with you. Abstaining from sex is especially difficult for Taurus, so finding a regular sex partner is particularly important. Their sexual stamina during love-making is long-lasting and steady. Although generally patient, their style is natural and physical, and intellectualizing the sex act would only serve to baffle Taurus.

Venus or Mars in Gemini
Talk, talk – and more talk. The twins love any type of verbal sexual expression – and they love to kiss, too. To most of us, an intellectual conversation may disrupt lovemaking, but to them it’s absolute foreplay. They are way less driven by their desires than they are by their intellects. Try to engage in some form of role-play with the twins – it will send them straight to ecstasy! And if you want to put them under your spell, you might try kissing or touching their arms and hands. These areas are guaranteed to send shivers down their spines.

When Venus or Mars is in Gemini, use words in bed with them. Talk turns them on, and they love to kiss! Oral pleasures are extra special for these lovers. They love role-playing, as long as it is varied. They are generally fun in bed, if you can forgive their sudden bursts of speech during the act. To you, an intellectual conversation may interrupt lovemaking, but to them, it’s just extended foreplay. Sometimes given to trying too much in one session, these lovers are enthusiastic and curious about all kinds of sexual expression. Still, many people with this position are not wanton lovers. The Gemini tendency to over-think brings up all of the “buts” and “what ifs” surrounding sex. They are less driven by their desires than they are by their intellect.

Venus or Mars in Cancer
These sensitive crabs are one of the sweetest lovers you’ll ever find – when they’re not pouting, that is. They are extremely romantic, and love to be touchy- feely. They are not always the most direct lovers, and they expect you to know intuitively what they need and desire. They are turned-on by a more aggressive lover, because they can be quite submissive. If you really want to ignite their passions quickly, gently touch or kiss their breasts. This is a Cancerian’s true erogenous zone, and it will drive them wild.

When Venus or Mars is in Cancer, you’ll get one of the most sensitive and sweet lovers. When they’re not pouting, they are romantic and gooey with you. They are turned on by slave scenarios, and they may like it when you’re a little mean and aggressive in bed, as long as they know you love them. Some of them are turned on by the idea of making a baby, and others just love the idea of being all yours in bed. They are known as the sign most attracted to breasts, and they generally like their men rather masculine and their women feminine, at least in fantasy. They don’t always let you know what turns them on, and expect you to intuit their sexual needs. Their style in bed is protective and soothing.

Venus or Mars in Leo
These lusty lions prefer to be treated like gods and goddesses – they respond best if you make them the center of attention. It is hard for them to separate love from sex, because even their most erotic sexual fantasies are infused with love and affection. They can sometimes come on too strong, and they get impatient when their needs are not met soon enough – but you may appreciate their direct sexual expression, and their openness in bed. If you want to sexually stimulate and excite these lions, massage or caress their back and spine. After you do this, this your Leo will be more than ready for love.

When Venus or Mars is in Leo, the fantasies often revolve around devotion and attention. These people are most turned on when their partner thinks they are gods or goddesses. Although they will take care of their partners in bed, their natural inclination is to get off themselves. Their pride in their lovemaking compels them to try to be the best in bed. While some want a mate they can show off, many prefer not to have two stars in the same household. They can be quite possessive and jealous, although they’ll often try to hide this fact. In fact, they may put their partners to the test every now and again, and the more insecure ones will demand the world from their partners, if only to have them prove their love. They are prone to fibbing when it comes to love and sex, as they are out to impress their mates. They are attracted to inequality in sexual scenarios. However, they won’t let you always play the knave—they are attracted to seeing you in the most regal of scenarios too. It is hard for these people to separate love and sex. Even their most erotic sexual fantasies are infused with love and affection. They can sometimes come on too strong, and get impatient when their needs are not met soon enough, but you may appreciate their direct sexual expression, and their openness in bed.

Venus or Mars in Virgo
Sex to this sign is a normal bodily function that is needed for health and general well-being. They tend to look at sex as a release of everyday stresses and tensions. Virgo is the sign of the virgin, but don’t let that fool you. They really do aim to please. In fact, they’ll make a project out of you, and you will never feel quite so attended-to by anyone else. If you want to hit their erogenous spot, focus on their tummies. The entire stomach area is very responsive to erotic touching, kissing and stroking. Also try to get these Virgoans in the bathtub or shower for some fun! They really love this, and of course they are attracted to the “cleanliness” factor.

When Venus or Mars is in Virgo, there is generally a healthy attitude towards sex. Sex to them is a bodily function, necessary for health and general well-being. Everyday stresses and tensions are released in sex, whether it’s with others or with themselves. They are turned on by people who have largely gone unnoticed. Simple and sweet is the way they like their bed partners. They also get turned on by the idea that they are your slave. They love doing little things for you, and get worked up when they know you appreciate all the things they do. They can be a little insecure about their own bodies, and they make up for it by paying close attention to their methods of turning you on. They are very respectful of your likes and dislikes, and focus on the things that have had the most success. Virgo is the sign of the virgin, and this aspect gives others the idea that they are very selective. Don’t be entirely fooled by this, however. They are not as picky as they appear. In fact, they love imperfections and have the best time with a partner who needs care. They’ll make a project out of you, and you will likely never feel quite so attended to with anyone else. Their fantasies often feature the downtrodden and inexperienced. They are insatiably curious about sex, although many don’t take their curiosity much beyond fantasy. Voyeurism is especially appealing to these lovers. We are giving Virgo a little more attention than other signs simply because we feel this sign has been misunderstood on the topic of sex. They are generally not as picky and particular as their reputation says—and they are not as “virginal” either. In fact, they want to please and to be savvy in the lovemaking arena. They’ll generally “do” more than many other signs, and they’re not afraid of getting dirty either, within the confines of a healthy relationship.

Venus or Mars in Libra
These lovers can charm the birds out of the trees when they want to. They are quite provocative, and they possess a strong desire for balance and perfection in the bedroom. They are exceptionally picky when it comes to the mood and atmosphere they’re in while they make love. So get those candles ready, and break out the satin sheets. Also, try caressing their lower back and buttocks.

When Venus or Mars is in Libra, extra care is taken to please the partner. These people can be provocative in a quiet way. Their need for balance and perfection in their relationships may manifest itself at all the wrong moments. In bed, these lovers want things to be balanced. They love working on getting things right, and are especially turned on by role-playing sex games. They have a strong need for change and growth in their sexual expression. They are givers in bed, but they fully expect you to give equally in return. Although they can be pushed around for a time, their lovers must be aware that the best way to keep Libra lovers happy is to keep everything fair. These lovers can be a little picky when it comes to mood and atmosphere while making love (Virgo is all too often assigned this trait, but our experience suggests that Libra is the pickiest of lovers). Make them happy, however, and you have a lover who is going to think about you and your needs. These lovers can charm the birds out of the trees when they want to.

Venus or Mars in Scorpio
One sting from this Scorpion and you will be hooked. Their intensity is deep and provocative – but very private. They will never kiss and tell. Sex must be intimate and personal, but their fantasies never lack excitement. Mostly dominant in nature, Scorpions prefer to express their need for control in the bedroom. So sit back and let them steer the ship. Obviously the genitals are everyone’s erogenous zone, but it is especially so for Scorpions.

When Venus or Mars is in Scorpio, the sexual nature can be quite complex. These lovers generally share a common intensity and depth in their sexual desires, but they vary in expression depending on their level of development. Some enjoy power and are attracted to breaking taboos. These lovers are willing to do almost anything, and they enjoy full-body pleasures. Others express their need for control by being unavailable and abstaining for long periods of time, giving in only when they feel their partner is deserving. Whatever their nature, they have a way that promises commitment and intensity in bed. They are provocative but private. Most will never kiss and tell. Sex is intimate and personal for Scorpio, but their fantasies are full-ranging.

Venus or Mars in Sagittarius
Sexy Sagittarians are direct about their needs and desires. They view sex as if it was a sport, and they love to have fun in bed. The best way to approach them is to just do it – and then talk to them after the fact. They have very little patience with games, such as playing-hard-to-get. They just want to get down to business. If you really want to ignite their fire, touch or caress their hips and thighs – that will get them started.

When Venus or Mars is in Sagittarius, sex is treated rather like a sport. These lovers are direct and forthcoming with their desires and needs. They have an almost innocent frankness about them, and they love to have fun in bed. Laughing and roughhousing are huge turn-ons. They are actually a bit selfish in sex, and their need to “get off” will almost always be expressed. Games are acceptable for Sagittarius lovers, just as long as they are not too time-consuming or intricate. They have little patience with people playing hard to get or beating around the bush. The same goes for too much seriousness or romancing. The best way to approach sex with these people is to just do it, and then talk about it after the fact, if need be.

Venus or Mars in Capricorn
How do you get their goat, you ask? Keep it straightforward. The “no frills” approach to lovemaking is just fine with Capricorns – consistency is the name of the game, not variety. But don’t fret – their sexuality is very deep and powerful. However they are extremely private about what goes on in the bedroom. If you really want to awaken Capricorn’s slumbering passions, you’ll focus on kissing, massaging, or stroking their knees – the effect of this will be volcanic.

When Venus or Mars is in Capricorn, sex that is straightforward and simple is generally best. The reputation for Capricorn lovers is an attraction to experienced, and sometimes older, partners. They often prefer strong, powerful lovers who display some sort of authority or know-how. These lovers prefer a certain measure of discretion. Capricorn is an earth sign, and this earthiness shows up in love-making style—it’s generally no-frills that is most appealing to these lovers. They can be quite happy with consistency, as variety is less important to them than is security in sexual expression. However, their sexuality is deep and powerful. They are often quite private about what goes on in the bedroom. Although some will want others to know that they are on top of things in their sex life, they generally won’t get into messy details.

Venus or Mars in Aquarius
These eccentric water-bearers give off a vibe of being cool and confident in bed. They have a reputation for lacking warmth – but they are also very open-minded. Aquarians are most turned-on when you are not, since detachment can really get them hot. The idea of sex is much more exciting to them than the actual act. If you want to turn on their switch, focus on their calves and ankles.

When Venus or Mars is in Aquarius, there is a “take it or leave it” style that can be sexy or maddening, depending on the audience. They don’t have a reputation for warmth in sex, although they may think the other way around because, at least in theory, they are open-minded. They give off an air of being savvy and cool in bed. Sex from a distance (when you are not actually there physically), or in theory, is often where they shine. That is why cyber or phone sex, or affairs that don’t break up marriages, can be especially attractive to these folks. They are most turned on when you are not, as detachment can be a real turn-on for them. And, again, the idea of sex is generally more exciting to these lovers than the actual act. Their fantasies often involve getting caught having sex, and they are attracted to people who are a little offbeat or odd.

Venus or Mars in Pisces
These feisty fish are flirtatious, romantic, and gooey at times. They are open to all avenues of sexual expression, and are eager to please. Pisceans may come across in a subtle way, and can sometimes be like chameleons. Their lovemaking style is hard to pinpoint, because they like imbalance, though their fantasies are detailed and intricate. If you want to arouse your Piscean lover, aim for their feet – this will send their passions into overdrive.

When Venus or Mars is in Pisces, a subtle approach to flirting and sex is taken on. These lovers are generally open to all of the avenues of sexual expression, especially the nooks and crannies. They are forgiving and bending, and they are generally willing to please. At times romantic and gooey, these lovers are actually a bit like chameleons. It’s hard to pin them down to any one style. They may talk a lot one evening, and be withdrawn the next. In general, they prefer non-verbal expressions of love and are attracted to imbalance. Self-sacrifice, compassion, and even religion can be mixed into their sexual expression. They’re very sensitive, but will almost always forgive you. They’ll even let you go if you so desire, and love you forever anyways. Although they can be shy and yielding, their lovers can sometimes find them maddeningly detached and spaced. Their fantasies are intricate and detailed, and they are attracted to the downtrodden or needy.






7 thoughts on “05. Sexual style according to venus and mars

  1. I think women are sort of boring and passive in relationships. They have ideal types but do nothing about them. I wish there was more on how women use their Venus and Mars towards men.

    How are women using Venus and Mar. Do they just see Venus as hobbies and friends? And what about Mars. It’s their ideal type, but in what way? Is it physical? The vibe the man gives off? Even if the woman doesn’t let that define the relationship she wants.

    It just appears women are very reserved and scared of relationships and sexual contact. I think there should be more on the subject.

    Overall, I love the article. It clarifies the differences between Mars and Venus as many times they are interlinked and often confused.

    • moonshineflower says:

      Mars is most of the time the active pursuit, and venus is how you want to attract the person. Female usually use their venus sign to attract someone in a feminine way, mars is more aggressive. But if both or one of them is in a passive sign, these are most of the time feminine signs like pisces, taurus, sometimes libra but also cancer and virgo, than they can be passive or subtle in their pursuit. Venus is what is liked in the relationship and mars is how one acts and behaves to gain what one wants. The mars sign is also the lust factor, while venus is more love or appreciation. Mars is their ideal masculine sign, because of the projection of masculine energy towards the man they desire in a attractive way, what women find attractive in a man, their traits, their vibe, their behavior. Venus can also relate to friends indeed and it can give the needs in a relationship, with the moon sign.

      Women are not reserved or scared in relationships or sexual contact, it totally depends on their mars, sun, moon, venus and asc sign, and the aspects that are made. Maybe some people attract these kind of women because it tells them something about their own feminine aspects. For example a sun in aries women can be really aggressive and bold, while a pisces women can be sweet and shy, it really depends.

      Thanks for your comment.

  2. Oops. I accidentally asked a question for this article on another one. On this one, I meant to ask if Mars in Cancer being laborious means they themselves require a lot of care and require perseverance or are they themselves persevering and work hard?

    • moonshineflower says:

      It means that they are hard working and are persevering. But cancer also requires a lot of care but they are also caregivers.

  3. BonBon says:

    i half agree with this and half disagree. my venus and mars are both in cancer and i agree about being sensitive and how they say we love. but i completely disagree with the turn-on stuff. i would want somebody like me not the opposite! i wouldn’t want to be with anyone even slightly aggressive or mean in bed. i don’t like guys masculine, i hate muscles on guys, too much muscle always looks frightening.

    i don’t know what to think about the article, i’ve read others about venus and mars in cancer. they are different, they don’t mention the things i disagree with. i just started getting into astrology so i don’t know much about it yet.

  4. kate says:

    I have Mars in Aries and Venus in Gemini. I’m all fucked up lol

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