Published a new E-book: Synastry – Sexual Attraction

I updated the information about Sexual Attraction in my new E-book. If you are especially interested in Synastry and sexual attraction, I would recommend this E-book. I also talk a bit about the use of love asteroids in your interpretation.

The book is easy to understand for someone that understands astrology a bit more than a beginner. If you feel you want to DIY with sexual attraction Synastry astrology, this book is definitely recommended and a pleasure to read!

You can buy the book in my store!

Update to visitors and people who posted reactions/emails

Hi people,

I found out that there is a huge amount of people visiting this website, so I’m a bit overwhelmed at this point, I’m gonne try to answer some questions, but other people can also react on each other if I approved their comment. If you have a question about your chart and you are directing to me to get my opinion or advice, please put your email in the reaction so I can email you back, because I don’t know if you want your details on the website. I will try to answer emails and reactions, but keep in mind, the website has a lot of visitors for something that was a little side project. So it can take a while sometimes.

Also I hear a lot of people wanting to know more about asteroids, so I’m finding out more about it, but it is quite hard to find the information, and not all astrologers use even asteroids in their calculations.

Also, for people of different sexual preferences (bi, gay, lesbian), do not be offended by the main idea here putting male and female astrology in the interpretation, it’s nothing personal, I made this website a long time ago, and not everything is totally updated to this date. You can always look at the sign of the partner, if it is a guy or girl and what kind of thing the partner likes, if it is a guy or a girl.

The main idea of the website is to form a database of all kinds of information about astrology and sexuality. It is not meant to harm other people. So if you find something that is yours, or you know it is someone elses, and you don’t see the (right) source, please email me so I can correct it. The site was used at first for personal reasons, but later became so big that it would be useful for other people too to share it. I try to put as much the right source links as possible.

Thank you!




Synastry and marriage aspects

If you want to know which astrology aspects are interesting to look at, you can think about the aspects of personal planets made with saturn, and saturn is certain houses. You can also think of the sign asteroid juno is placed in, and the aspects it makes with other planets of the partner. Also the connection between sun and moon and aspects of planets (conjunction/opposite) with the sun/moon midpoint can be interesting to look at. Also you can look at the planets of the partner that fall in the 7th house.

For more detailed description you can go to the article of: source: 


Juno in Aries: Your partner will be fiery, direct, aggressive, and active.

Juno in Taurus: Your partner will be stubborn, stable, and physically attractive. This aspect can also indicate material prosperity after marriage.

Juno in Gemini: Your partner will be talkative, curious, and intelligent. This aspect sometimes indicates multiple marriages.

Juno in Cancer: Your partner will be sensitive, dependent, and emotional.

Juno in Leo: Your partner will be creative, egotistical, energetic, and full of life.

Juno in Virgo: Your partner will be hard-working, health-conscious, and critical. He might work in the health field.

Juno in Libra: Your partner will be attractive, loving, sociable, and well-mannered.

Juno in Scorpio: Your partner will be sexual, mysterious, and perhaps jealous.

Juno in Sagittarius: Your partner may come from a different locality or cultural background. You may meet your partner abroad. He will be philosophical, honest, and may be interested in higher learning.

Juno in Capricorn: Your spouse will be a corporate type. He might be older, and you may meet him later in your life (after your Saturn Return).

Juno in Aquarius: The partner will be original, independent, logical. You may meet through friends.

Juno in Pisces: Your partner will be dreamy, artsy, and imaginative. Make sure you don’t marry someone simply because you think he needs “help”!

Juno-Ascendant: The Juno person sees the Ascendant person as their ideal mate. The Ascendant person looks and projects herself how the Juno person envisions their marriage partner. Juno was likely instantly attracted to the Ascendant person.

Juno-Sun:  The Sun person’s basic nature expresses the qualities the Juno person is looking for in a partner. The Juno person sees the Sun person as their ideal mate. It is easy for the two of them to commit to each other on a fundamental level.

Juno-Moon: The Juno person feels attracted to and comfortable with the way the Moon person expresses their emotions. It is easy for the two of them to commit to one another on an emotional level.

Juno-Venus: The Juno person’s feelings of commitment are activated by the Venus person, and the Venus person finds an ideal partner in the Juno person. The Juno person feels the Venus person is their ideal mate, and it is easy for them to commit to each other on a romantic level.

Juno-Mars: The Juno person is attracted to the sexual charisma and assertiveness of the Mars person. It is easy for these two to commit to each other sexually. This aspect increases the chances of continuing to have great sex after marriage.

Juno-Jupiter: Juno and Jupiter are natural partners for one another. The Jupiter person expands Juno’s desire for commitment and marriage, and feels she has met her match in the Jupiter person. On the downside, the Jupiter person may make the Juno person suspicious of infidelity.

Juno-Saturn: The Asteroid of marital commitment meets the planet of commitment! Juno feels safe and secure with Saturn. Saturn stimulates Juno’s desire to settle down. As such, it is very easy for them to commit to each other.

According to a study, certain Juno aspects were commonly found in the synastry charts of married couples, including: Juno conjunct North Node, Juno conjunct Juno, Juno trine Venus, and Juno trine Mars. If these aspects are not presents in the synastry chart of your and your mate, don’t fret! Other Juno aspects are indicative of a potential marriage partner, as well.



FREE AstroStar Love app – what attracts men!?



Hi everyone,

I found that lots of people are interested in what a man attracts according to astrology. I released a handy app to check out  what a guy is attracted to based on his birth date. All the regular apps are based on just sun sign, while in fact the venus sign is more important in matters of attraction for a guy. You can download it from the app store and you can re-use it for everyone you know! Totally EXCITING! If you have any nice suggestions or ideas that you want to see in the app, please comment!



A soulmate synastry calculation with asteroids

I found an interesting calculation of synastry on the web. It’s not totally true that you will get a relationship with the person you got this synastry with, but it gives clues that something is happening between the two of you, and there is potential for a (soulmate) relationship.

One of the greatest applications of astrology is love and relationship compatibility analysis. The most evolved love, unconditional to the core, forgiving, sacrificing and full of joy is the love that can only be experienced by true soul mates. Conventional science and orthodox religion are unaware of past life metaphysics but those who have experienced past lives through hypnotic regression or sudden dreams will testify to knowing the people of “then” and their current incarnations in the now.

And the happiest couples will always “feel” as if they know their mate for lifetimes, that their chance encounter in this life is more like a deja vu, and that the soul mate entered their life after a huge crisis, seeing them through the rough seas into a lifetime of joyful sailing.

Some “past life” mates may also enter our lives in tough times, playing the role of parent figure, friend, helpful sibling or generous business partner. Some may actually drag us down by making us repeat past life mistakes, these are nothing but past life scenarios and “karmas” being played out for atonement and eventual balance. However, in this topic we will see what in a couple’s chart can indicate a true loving soul mate for the happiest relationship.

Can be used as Male to Female or vice versa

Aspect Orbs:
a) Maximum 3.0 degrees Orb when Ascendant, Sun, Moon and Venus are involved.
b) Maximum 2.0 degrees Orb for Asteroids, Mars, Saturn, Pluto when a) is not involved.

Trines, Quincunx and Opposition
a) Maximum 2.0 degrees Orb when Ascendant, Sun, Moon and Venus are involved.
b) Maximum 1 degree 30 minutes Orb for Asteroids, Mars, Saturn, Pluto when a) is not involved.

The synastry calculator may give invalid results if there is less than 40 days difference between the couple.

For reference:
[Generic Love Objects] = AMOR, VALENTINE, EROS, JUNO

[Generic Fate Objects] = N Node, Saturn, Karma, Tyche, Fortuna, Destinn
Universal Filter Rule:
Ascendant of either person must conjunct a Generic Love Object, a Generic Fate Object or any of these:
Asc, Dsc, Sun, Moon, Mars, Venus, Pluto and Asteroids UNION and ANGEL.
Maximum 3 degrees orb.
Ascendant trine/opp Asc, Dsc, Moon, Sun, Saturn or Karma within 2 degrees orb is also valid.

If this is not true, proceed further with caution as the couple cannot be true love relationship soulmates, even though happiness cannot be ruled out.
If birth time is unknown, the Sun can be used in place of Ascendant and Sun conjunct Moon should not be used as a confirmation.
The Points Table

Sun conj [Aphrodite, Venus, Psyche, Moon,Sun]: 5 points
Mars conj [Aphrodite, Psyche]: 4 points
EROS conj [Aphrodite, Venus]: 4 points
Pluto conj [Aphrodite, Venus, Psyche, Moon]: 3 points
Sun trine [Aphrodite, Venus, Psyche]: 3 points
Mars trine [Aphrodite, Psyche]: 2 points
EROS trine [Aphrodite, Venus]: 3 points
Pluto trine [Aphrodite, Venus, Psyche]: 2 points

[Asc, Sun, Moon] conj [Generic Love Objects]: 5 points
[Asc, Sun, Moon] trine [Generic Love Objects]: 2 points
[Asc, Sun, Moon] opp/quincunx [Generic Love Objects]: 1 point

[Mars, Venus, Pluto] conj [Generic Love Objects]: 3 points
[Mars, Venus, Pluto] trine [Generic Love Objects]: 1 point
[Mars, Venus, Pluto] opp [Generic Love Objects]: 1 point

[Asc, Sun, Moon] conj [Generic Fate Objects]: 3 points
[Asc, Sun, Moon] trine [Generic Fate Objects]: 1 points
[Asc, Sun, Moon] opp/quincunx [Generic Fate Objects]: 1 point

[Mars, Venus, Pluto] conj [Generic Fate Objects]: 2 points
[Mars, Venus, Pluto] trine [Generic Fate Objects]: 1 point
[Mars, Venus, Pluto] opp [Generic Fate Objects]: 1 point

[Generic Fate Object] conj [Generic Love Objects]: 2 points
[Generic Fate Object] trine/opp [Generic Love Objects]:1 point
[Generic Fate Object] conj [Generic Fate Objects]: 2 points
[Generic Fate Object] trine/opp [Generic Fate Objects]:1 point
[Generic Love Object] conj [Generic Love Objects]: 3 points
[Generic Love Object] trine/opp [Generic Love Objects]:2 points
[Sun or Mars or EROS or Pluto] and [Venus or Aphrodite or Psyche or Juno] in same element = 1 point.
Chiron conj Moon, VALENTINE, Karma: 1pt
Pluto trine/conj Mars or Sun: 2 pts
VESTA trine/conj Sun, Mars, Eros or Pluto: 1 pt
LUST trine/conj Mars, Valentine, Amor, Lust, Eros, Karma, Aphrodite, Vesta or Venus : 1 pt
Neptune conjunct/trine JUNO, VALENTINE, AMOR, LUST, EROS

For the following, we have a Soulmate Attraction, 5 pts
Valid Aspects: Conjunction, Opposition, Quincunx and Trine.
Orbs: 3 degrees for Conjunction, 2 degrees for others.

Pluto aspect Persephone or Proserpine
Zeus aspect Hera
Eros aspect Psyche
Mars aspect Venus
Osiris aspect Isis
Adonis aspect Innanen
Fated-SoulMate Pair Linking Aspects: 3 pts
This is complex and needs a thorough check.
If any SoulMate pair is linked through the same fate Object, add 3 points.

A’s Zeus quincunx B’s Saturn and A’s Saturn opp B’s HERA is a valid link.
A’s Pluto conj B’s Destinn and A’s Destinn trine B’s Persephone or B’s Proserpine is also valid.

Note: Dangerous Aspect that needs an astrologer’s opinion is negative
aspects to Nessus and Dejanira.
Male’s Nessus/Pluto/Mars squaring Female’s Dejanira even by 3 degrees is dangerous.
Other negative aspects are of Asteroid Swindle/Lie. Any guy with Neptune conjunct Swindle or Lie squaring the girl’s Dejanira has chances of taking her for a ride.
Standard negative aspects are Mars sq Mercury, Neptune sq Mercury and Saturn sq/opp Pluto
but these can be tackled with a higher overall score.


30+ is a very good starting point.



5th house sexuality

The fifth house is also a house that has something to do with sexuality, but more the romance and love and creativity in relating to someone. It is less the actual sexual act than the 8th house. The 8th house relates more to exact sexual intimacy while the 5th house can also relate to dating and finding the right person that you feel romantic attracted to.

Aries on the 5th house cusp

If Aries is the sign on the cusp of your 5th house then you will eagerly jump in head first when it comes to the pursuit of love, sex and fun! Dating for you will seem like a competitive sport and you might take great pleasure out of winning new sex partners, putting yet another notch on your belt. With Aries in the 5th house you might tend to be selfish in dating relationships and in the quest for sexual pleasure but at the same time you’ll arouse your partner with your daring style. Aries in the 5th house will tend to fall in love quickly and might jump into bed earlier than others because of his impetuous nature. When it comes to love however, Aries in the 5th won’t hesitate to fight for it. After all, he knows best that love conquers all.

Taurus on the 5th house cusp

If Taurus is the sign on the cusp of your 5th house then you’ll be slow and steady when it comes to love, dating and sex. A relationship – even a new dating one – has an immediate sense of loyalty and stability in your eyes and you take dating very seriously. With Taurus in the 5th house sensual pleasures are heightened and you’re capable of enjoying sex and giving sexual favors more than other signs. Taurus in the 5th house will approach love in a more romantic way than others and will enjoy the experience of wining and dining a date and being wined and dined in return. Although Taurus in the 5th house will not fall in love instantly, when she does there is a sense of “till death do us part” even if it’s just an affair. Love and sex for Taurus in the 5th is never casual – it’s eternal.

Gemini on the 5th house cusp

With Gemini on the cusp of your 5th house sex begins in the mind! Dating prospects must have the gift of gab in order to turn you on. If there’s nothing going on upstairs then there will never be any love potential. If Gemini is the sign in your 5th house there might be a tendency for you to date more than one person or have multiple sexual partners. You might also be drawn into a casual love affair more than others. This is a dual sign and needs constant stimulation in order to not feel bored. A relationship that’s open and accepting of your curious, sometimes flighty nature will be most appealing to someone with Gemini in the 5th house. Commitment is possible however the only way you’ll remain true to one love is if that person knows how to keep you on your toes. Above all else, Gemini in the 5th house will experience sexual pleasure when talking about it.

Cancer on the 5th house cusp

If Cancer is the sign on the cusp of your 5th house then love, sex and dating will have a significant amount of emotion attached to it. You are not one to have a casual sexual relationship without any feelings involved. Sex without love is difficult if not impossible since you’re so vulnerable and sometimes guarded. With Cancer in your 5th house you will be exceptionally protective and nurturing in love and any relationship – even a casual date – will bring out your mothering instinct. If Cancer is in your 5th house you might fall in love more easily with a partner who shares your heritage and traditions – or someone who is interested in eventually raising a family together. Cancer in the 5th house must feel emotionally secure with a lover in order to truly let go and enjoy the pleasures of sex and dating.

Leo on the 5th house cusp

With Leo as the sign on the cusp of your 5th house love, sex and dating will be pursued in a more playful, flamboyant approach. Leo in the 5th house signals a true romantic – someone who will experience love and sex as a passionate escapade to be enjoyed to the fullest! A dating relationship will be viewed as a grand affair and if this is the sign on the cusp of your 5th house then you truly are “in love with love.” Leo in the 5th house will feel a great sense of pride in his or her sexual prowess and will enjoy being complimented as a lover. If Leo is the sign on the cusp of your 5th house you’ll give love with an open heart and show your partner exceptional warmth and vitality. Leo rules the heart and in the 5th house yours is larger than life.

Virgo on the 5th house cusp

If Virgo is the sign on the cusp of your 5th house then you will be picky when it comes to who you have sex with and who you date. When you do fall in love, it will only be after your potential partner manages to meet your incredible standards in relationship. With Virgo in the 5th house you make a practical, efficient lover who gives love with conditions and feels that love must be earned. There will also be a strong mental connection for you in love matters if Virgo is in your 5th house. If your sexual partner can’t stimulate your brain then it will be difficult to stimulate your libido. When you are in love, Virgo in the 5th house will make you a devoted lover who enjoys caring for his or her partner. Sometimes, with this sign on the cusp of the 5th house one can become a slave to love.

Libra on the 5th house cusp

With Libra as the sign on the cusp of your 5th house love is truly a romantic and beautiful experience. You will express love in a charming and graceful way to anyone you date or are in a sexual relationship with. If Libra is in your 5th house you truly yearn for a partnership experience and will want to meet the needs of your lover in order to feel as fulfilled as possible in love and sex. Libra is an air sign so there must be intellectual attraction between you and anyone you’re dating. You will also want to enjoy recreational activities with your lover together with Libra in your 5th house. This might be dancing, or some other type of artistic hobby you both enjoy. If you have Libra on the cusp of your 5th house then when it comes to love and sex you’ll always strive to achieve balance and harmony.

Scorpio on the 5th house cusp

With Scorpio as the sign on the cusp of the 8th house you approach dating, sex and love with extreme intensity! Any relationship you begin – even a first date – will have strong emotional undercurrents surrounding it. For you, love is “all or nothing” and you can be quite possessive in love with Scorpio in your 5th house. You will exude sexual vibes without even trying and this will likely attract many potential dating partners your way. When you are in love you will feel this emotion down to the depths of your soul if Scorpio is in your 5th house. You might need to guard against excessive jealousy or the need to control your lovers if Scorpio is in your 5th house. One thing is clear however – if this is the sign on your 5th house you’ll be loyal in love and sex. There is no such thing as a casual love affair in your book!

Sagittarius  on the 5th house cusp

If Sagittarius is the sign on the cusp of your 5th house then love, sex and dating will be a fiery adventure! If there was ever a sign willing to take a chance on love it’s you – Sagittarius in the 5th house will bring extraordinary faith and optimism when it comes to giving love and sex. You expect to win in love and usually, you do! A sexual relationship might have a sporty feel with Sagittarius in your 5th house. You can expect plenty of romping and playful fighting in the bedroom since you love to be physically active with your lover in a variety of ways. You also enjoy plenty of freedom in love so you’ll need a lover who can respect your space. With Sagittarius in your 5th house you’ll enjoy dating people from all walks of life, often attracting lovers who have a background very different from your own. This adds depth and quality to your sexual and romantic escapades.

Capricorn on the 5th house cusp

If Capricorn is the sign on the cusp of your 5th house then you approach sex, love and dating with a great deal of sobriety, realism and caution. True love might feel like a ridiculous fairy tale to you and it’s possible that you’ll wait longer than most before you experience the most gratifying sexual and romantic experiences promised to you in life. If you have Capricorn in your 5th house you might be more reserved about opening your heart up to love but once you do you’ll view love and sex with tremendous responsibility. Capricorn in the 5th house will bring limitations in the love life in some capacity. At times practical considerations or your career might be more important than the pursuit of a romantic relationship. Once you do fall in love however, if you have Capricorn in the 5th house you’ll work tirelessly to ensure love endures any hardship.

Aquarius on the 5th house cusp

With Aquarius as the sign on the cusp of your 5th house love, sex and dating will be highly unconventional! You might be a rebel in love and challenge all of the traditional dating rules, preferring instead to make your own. Aquarius in the 5th house will also bring a highly charged mental energy to the love and sex life. You might enjoy online dating, electronic sex toys and even communicating with your lover using the latest technological gadgets. If you have Aquarius in your 5th house a sexual relationship might be erratic or you might fall in love with a very unusual person who is a visionary in some way. There could be sudden break ups and sudden affairs if Aquarius is in your 5th house but you’ll likely enjoy shaking your love life up every now and then. For you, love and sex must always have a little taste of rebellion.

Pisces on the 5th house cusp

If Pisces is the sign on the cusp of your 5th house then you’ll approach love, sex and dating in an emotional, imaginative and enchanting way. You might have a difficult time seeing your lovers clearly, having a tendency to place anyone you’re dating on a pedestal of perfection with full God like status. If Pisces is in your 5th house there’s a yearning for deep soul mate connections so your sexual relationships are likely to be more transcendent than most. You’re able to surrender your body and soul completely during sex. If you have Pisces in your 5th house you might date or fall in love with someone who is psychic or extremely artistic. You might also fall in love with someone who is out of touch with reality in some way – someone you ultimately feel you need to save. With Pisces in the 5th house, love can have a tone of sacrifice attached to it.


8th house sexuality

In your birth chart there are several houses that relate to sexuality and relating. The 7th house traditionally is the house of marriage and one on one partnerships. The eighth house is the house of sexuality and emotional intimacy while the 5th house is the house of love, romance and also playful sexuality. The 2nd house can relate to ones own sexuality or self worth, but it is not the house of sexual intimacy with someone else.  Planets in the 8th house almost always have something to do with sexuality or intimacy (issues).


Aries on the 8th house cusp

If Aries is the sign on the cusp of your 8th house then your approach to intimate love and sexual encounters will be passionate and enthusiastic. You’re not afraid to “go there” with Aries in the 8th house – in fact – the prospect of a relationship being truly connected beyond physical sex completely turns you on. If you have Aries in the 8th house then you’ll likely have an extremely active sex life and will pursue getting your deepest needs met through your sexual encounters. You might be reckless when it comes to sexual practices if Aries is on the cusp of your 8th house because you’re so “in the moment.” Be sure to practice safe sex until you’re certain you and your intimate partner are exclusive. When it comes to achieving sexual regeneration you’ll dive into the depths that more tepid souls fear to tread. Your motto is “let’s get it on!”

Taurus on the 8th house cusp

Admit it; the smell of money turns you on. If Taurus is the sign on the cusp of your 8th house then your approach to intimate love and sexual encounters will be more practical and materially oriented. A partner with the means to please your body in physical and material ways will be the doorway to intimacy for you. If Taurus is in the 8th house your relationship will be deeply sensual and you’ll easily surrender your soul to all bodily pleasures. You thrive in love and sex if the relationship is monogamous with Taurus in the 8th house. In addition, you’ll use the physical act of sex as a vehicle for learning how to achieve emotional intimacy more than most if Taurus is in your 8th house. Raw, physical, earthy and lusty sex that’s not complicated is what you yearn for. Lying in your lover’s arms after you’ve moved mountains together is all you need to feel deeply transformed.

Gemini on the 8th house cusp

With Gemini as the sign on the cusp of your 8th house you’re extremely curious about exploring the depths of intimacy and sex. You might enjoy learning as much as possible about erotic sexual pleasures such as tantric or even more taboo sexual practices. If Gemini is in your 8th house then a relationship will always begin in your mind and in order to fall in love and ever achieve deep, intimate, bonding sex, you must first achieve an intellectual connection with your partner. Gemini in the 8th house can often thrive by talking to a lover after physical sex. Pillow talk is indeed the doorway to intimacy – much more than the physical act of sex itself. You will enjoy talking while you have sex and might ask your partner to talk dirty to you during sex if Gemini is in the 8th house. You might also find it natural to bond intimately with more than one sexual partner…at once!

Cancer on the 8th house cusp

If you have Cancer as the sign on the cusp of your 8th house then your approach to sex and intimacy will be deeply emotional and especially intense. It might be difficult for you to reach orgasm unless you’re emotionally connected to the person you’re in a sexual relationship with. This might make it difficult to enjoy casual sex but you’re not likely to be the type who strives for the one night stand anyway. With Cancer in the 8th house you want an emotionally rich bond with someone special who you can share everything with – body and soul. With Cancer in the 8th you might be quite nurturing in your sexual relationship as well – tending to the needs of your lover in a way that makes him or her feel cherished. You might also be the type to smother your lover with sexual favors in order to prove your love if Cancer is in your 8th house.

Leo on the 8th house cusp

If you have Leo as the sign on the cusp of your 8th house then your approach to sex and intimacy will be filled with flamboyant style and creativity. When it comes to sex, you see every encounter as a new performance – and of course you’re the star of the show! If Leo is in your 8th house then a sexual relationship will need color and verve in order to sustain you and you’ll enjoy showing your lover that you’re in charge. You might have a delicate sense of pride about your sexual prowess if Leo is in your 8th house so if a lover bruises your ego or neglects to compliment you as an incredible lover it might actually affect your future ability to perform in bed. With Leo in your 8th house love and sexual intimacy are usually abundant because you have so much to give. You deserve to get at least as much in return.

Virgo on the 8th house cusp

If Virgo is the sign on the cusp of your 8th house then your approach to sex and intimacy will be cautious and discriminating. You might have an almost clinical way to achieve sexual satisfaction and to please your lover since you’ll focus on the technical ways to make sure you both reach orgasm. The problem with this is that you might forget that in your efforts to be efficient, you’re also taking some of the fun and spontaneity out of your sex life. With Virgo in your 8th house you’re a master at the sexual details but remember not to overlook the bigger picture – intimacy! If Virgo is in your 8th house you might love to offer your services to your lover in other ways besides sexually and might wind up giving a great deal of yourself in the process. One thing is certain: with Virgo in your 8th house your lover will definitely need to measure up to your incredible standards.

Libra on the 8th house cusp

With Libra as the sign on the cusp of your 8th house you’ll strive to achieve balance in your sexual and intimate life. You might go out of your way to make sure that you both achieve orgasm simultaneously since this could be an expression of equality in the most sexual sense. If Libra is the sign in your 8th house you’ll also feel turned on if your lover is graceful in bed rather than crass or dirty. Libra in the 8th is gentle and concerned with a romantic approach to love and sex rather than a highly charged, taboo encounter that you might be embarrassed to talk about in the morning. When you have Libra in your 8th house you want a sexual relationship that meets you halfway and will likely voice your dismay if you feel anything less. You have a seductive yet intellectual way of asking for what you want in bed.

Scorpio on the 8th house cusp

If Scorpio is the sign on the cusp of your 8th house then your approach to love and intimacy will be as extreme as it can get! You have a way of intuitively knowing what you lover wants in bed so this placement can make you a scintillating lover. However at the same time, with Scorpio in your 8th house you might be extremely adept at using sex as a weapon if you try to control or manipulate the one you’re in a sexual relationship with. Still, with Scorpio in the 8th house you’ll have a loyal, sensual and deeply profound intimate life since you’re easily able to provide a level of intensity to your lover that is unsurpassed. You’re not afraid of anything taboo in the bedroom and with Scorpio in the 8th house you yearn to reach transcendental heights in sex. Sex regenerates you in a profound way.

Sagittarius on the 8th house cusp

If Sagittarius is the sign on the cusp of your 8th house then your approach to sex, love and intimacy will be filled with optimism. You might take on a philosophical approach in your sexual relationship and seek a deeper, more spiritual meaning between the physical connections you share with your lover. If Sagittarius is in your 8th house then you might experience copious amounts of sexual encounters since Sagittarius is a sign that prefers to do everything in a bountiful way. In the 8th house, Sagittarius will extend this to sexual joy. You will likely see sex and intimacy as a sport to play together – not to win but simply for the fun of it. You’ll have an exceptionally adventurous side which you’ll easily express to your lover. Sagittarius in the 8th house will be a lover who’s always “up for more.”

Capricorn on the 8th house cusp

If Capricorn is the sign on the cusp of your 8th house then your approach to sex, love and intimacy will be filled with a heavy sense of duty and responsibility. While it’s not a solid indicator that sex will be less of a pleasurable experience for you, it does suggest that you might need to overcome some guilty feelings about your right to enjoy sex and intimacy. With Capricorn in your 8th house you’ll be a truly committed lover and will take your role as a lover quite seriously. It’s possible that you will put yourself down at times when it comes to your ability to give pleasure to your lover if Capricorn is in your 8th house. Try to access the most positive attributes of Capricorn in your 8th house so that you can channel your ambition and hard work to achieving the kind of sexual intimacy with someone that stands the test of time.

Aquarius on the 8th house cusp

If Aquarius is the sign on the cusp of your 8th house then your approach to sex, love and intimacy will have a strong sense of individual expression attached to it. You will enjoy experimenting sexually more than most and it’ll be difficult for you to tolerate a lover who is close-minded. With Aquarius in your 8th house you might be “far out” when it comes to your views of sex so it could be difficult for you to achieve intimacy on a one to one level. In fact, you might prefer a communal type of sexual intimacy either through group sex or having a partner who’s open to you having sex with someone else. With Aquarius in the 8th house you might be quite gifted in helping your partner free himself of his own self imposed restrictions as they pertain to sexuality. A love relationship is meant to promote your sense of individuality and freedom with Aquarius in the 8th.

Pisces on the 8th house cusp

If Pisces is the sign on the cusp of your 8th house then your approach to intimate love and sexual encounters might be almost ethereal at times. You might feel as if you always need to make sacrifices for your lover and will attempt to heal the pain and suffering of your lover through your sexual relationship. If Pisces is in your 8th house you’ll be extremely sentimental when it comes to sex and your intimate life could have an element of fantasy to it that has the potential to be quite pleasurable if enacted in reality. The problem with Pisces in the 8th house however is that there might be times when the fantasy is better than the reality and you may prefer to keep a sexual fantasy private rather than strive to realize it. If Pisces is in your 8th house you’ll enjoy sexual experiences that include a telepathic connection between you and your lover.




Dark sexual relationship synastry top 5

1. Moon/Pluto does not have to be dark sexual but if any planetary aspect would be, it would be this. Moon conjunct Pluto is the strongest of the Moon/Pluto aspects because the conjunction trumps any other aspect in strength. Think sitting next to a roaring fire. In the conjunction, the planets are next to each other( or on top of each other in the exact conjunction).

Moon/Pluto as a conjunction is not dark , per se. It is very, very powerful. When/if that turns bad, it could become dark. However, Moon/Pluto in conjunction does not have to turn bad. It is a true soul mate aspect, to me. It is the passion of lovers and the pure, primal love of a mother for her baby. Powerful, you say? YES

Moon/Pluto in a trine is very powerful, too. It is not as intense as the conjunction but very intense, nonetheless. This is not a dark aspect, either.

Moon oppose Pluto and Moon square Pluto could tend to be dark because they are powerful and not with a harmonious flow. We are dealing with very primal emotions here and we all know what primal emotions and passions can do if a person is not careful. If you see Moon oppose or square Pluto, don’t play with the person. If you want to end it, be upfront and be kind. Playing with someone’s emotions when these aspects are involved could lead to bad things such as violence.

2. Mars/Pluto

Mars/Pluto is more primal in a pure sexual way than Moon/Pluto which is more emotional and much more emotionally bonded. You can have Mars/Pluto with a fling and not feel a thing in your emotions.We have the same kind of weighting with the conjunction, trine, opposition and square as we did above.

To summarize, I would say that Mars/Pluto could be passionate sex and passionate emotions but no soul.If a chart had no Moon aspects and Mars/Pluto aspects, I would say it would be a fling.

3. Now, we come to things that could really make the relationship dark. The first would be Nessus

Nessus is the abuser’s asteroid. I, always, have people want  to tell me that Nessus is not alwaysabuse. To me, it always is. The exception would be the person who overcame it through God. However, this person would have to play it out before he overcame it. If you see Nessus in synastry, make sure you know which side of the fence he is on. To be honest, few people overcome Nessus. It can be done but it is rare that someone reaches that level of spiritual mastery. I have seen it in a few people, only.

4. Another asteroid that is dark is Dejanira. Dejanira is the victim asteroid. People tell me the same thing they tell me with Nessus. “Not all people with a prominent Dejanira are victims” I disagree.I think they will be until they can truly overcome it with God. Many people say they have overcome things but I watch their actions and see they are lying. They are deceiving themselves, would be a better way to say it. The chart allows one to see oneself. That is why it is so powerful. That is why I don’t mince words. It is disrespect to Astrology which I love and respect.

To put it plainly, if you have a dominant Nessus, you will be an abuser. If you have a dominant Dejanira, you will be a victim. If you do not have either of these in the natal but have them in synastry, it will play out the same way. In other words, if a man’s Nessus conjuncts your ASC, he will abuse you, in my opinion. If a man’s Nessus conjuncts, your Sun, Moon, Venus, Mars or North Node, he will abuse you, in my opinion. If your Dejanira conjuncts his ASC, Sun, Moon, Mercury, Mars, Venus or NN, you will be his victim.

Before I leave this subject, I will add my theory. This is based on experience and charts, as are all my theories. I think the Nessus/Deja relationship in synastry is a re-play of childhood abuse. That is why it is so powerful. That is why it feels so life and death. It brings you back to the time when you were a child and truly powerless.

5. Uranus/Mars in synastry can be kinky. This is not dark sexual, per se. However, if you have Nessus/Dejanira and Mars/Uranus, particularly in hard aspect( opposition and square), it may make for dark spice, shall we say. the reason this is the case is that Mars is sexual drive( all drives actually). Uranus is kink, so you do the math.